I was very much like that with the man I'm with now. Believe it or not, he seduced me over a two year period. After that length of time the sex was incredible, but I was scared and shook like a leaf. We have been very sexually active for almost three years now and we sometime laugh about how scared I was in the beginning. I am completely uninhibited with him now, but it certainly didn't start out that way. Is that what you are talking about, or do you mean when a woman pretends to be shy about sex? I think there is a big difference.