Thank god for the ability to be anonymous on the internet, or I would probably never even get to the point of asking this question…
Is there anyway to make it so my nipples stay hard when I need them to be? When I am doing exercise, or in cold situations, etc my nipples look fine. But at their default state they are pretty big, well bigger then what is “normal”.
There isn’t any like skin cream that tightens the skin for a while or anything like that is there?
I think what you are describing is probably normal. I hate it when I'm in a situation where they are hard!!! Maybe that's just me, but then I am a woman. I suppose you can think of things that make you nervous, maybe that would do the trick? Have you talked to your doctor about this?