| Swing Shift, need to learn how to wind down faster
I'm currently having problems finding a way to balance work, sleep, family time, and avoiding seizure disorders. I currently work 5 pm to 1 AM Monday to Friday. My wife works Monday to Thursday 8:30 am to 3:00 pm. We live about 25 miles from work, so my wife leaves home about 7:30 am, and gets home for about 4:00. I probably see her for about 15 minutes, then head to work myself. I get home about 1:30 am, and admittedly, go on my computer for about an hour, trying to wind down, then get to bed a little before 2:30 am. I get about 5.5 hours of sleep a night, sometimes a little less, because my 2 year old and 4 year old get up about as early as they can, and I need to take my 4 year old to school. I try to sleep as much as I can on the mornings of Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, but my wife's idea of sleeping in is about 8.5 hours. My wife is a non-believer in winding down, she thinks I should be ready to go right to bed as soon as I walk in the door. To top it off, I have a seizure disorder, for which I take 400 mg of Dilantin daily. I realize that going on my computer is detrimental, but to be honest, My adrenalin kicks in nightly at about 8:30 - 9:00 every night, that's pretty much when the work really starts at work. I work my butt off to the end of my shift, and drive home on a highway that for the most part, has very little lighting, so I make sure I'm really alert on the way home. So, in the end, every week, I end up with a rather large sleep deficit, and it's starting to affect me after a year. Other than switching my shifts, does anyone have any advice as to how I can speed up winding down?
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