My husband was doing some wierd things in his sleep. I couldn't get him to wake up and then the next day he said . No way. I video taped him and showed it to him the next day. Then he believed me. My guess is she's asleep and is dreaming. Don't take it badly. You just moved into a new place and it takes time to get settled in. My guess is that many do this at some point.
If it bothers you ask her to ask her doctor or you ask yours. If you want to have relations I would do it way before you all fall asleep. Start the romance after dinner not overt infront of the children.
Don't take it personally we don't control our dreams all the time and many never control them. It isn't you that she is pushing way. It is the dream.
Forgot, I would also take the child back to their own room if this starts.
Take care ~Kim & Gary~
[This message has been edited by kim (edited 04-24-2002).]