babitofresh,
i quit via the patch and an anti depressant called Celexa. The thought NEVER crossed my mind that I could actually quit. My motivation was finding out I had permanant scarring on my lungs at 25 yrs old. So I began taking the Celexa, and then two weeks later threw on the patch, and I was so surpised that I wasn't freaking out and craving. i just wasnt't. It was at that point, I began thinking, "I might be able to do this". The more days that past made me not want to blow it by smoking. Plus, my 9 year old's excitment also kept me going.
if the patches are making you sick to your stomach, try a lower dose. Were you on step 1? maybe cut them in 1/2?