Hi Tilly
YES it WILL get better! Hang in there. Will tell you some of the stuff I used to do & maybe something will be of use to you.....
I tried to avoid situations which I associated with a cigarette e.g. a smoke with the first shot of caffeine in the morning. Instead of going straight for the kettle & cigarettes, I changed my routine - went in the shower first, then drank fruit tea, something I didn't associate with smoking. After a meal I leapt up to wash the dishes, instead of the usual after meal cigarette. It was like playing psychological games with myself.
I also collected the money I would have spent on cigarettes & bought myself a present evry week or so. I also tried to avoid drinking too much alcohol as a drink & a cigarette always went together. Initially I had a problem with finishing my drinks too quickly when I was out but a few bad hangovers cured that!
Look in the phone book & find a helpline. I found these people so encouraging & was sent booklets which I found really helpful.
Keep going Tilly - you can do it!
Lidia