Hi again Nero

How are you doing today? I hope you aren't in too much pain today.
As far as the actual surgery goes i was very suprised at the healing time and the pain wasn't nearly as bad as i thought it would be. When my surgeon got in to remove the material of the disc that had spilled out i had some bone deformities and that's why the laminectomy.
I stayed in the hospital for 3 days afterwards and had virtually no pain at all because they kept me medicated well for the first two days with morphine IM and the last day with oral meds. I was sent home with Lorcet but really only needed to take it for 3 days off and on and that's usually when i wasn't resting enough. Other than that the pain was more stiffness and like muscle soreness.
As far as the actual scar goes mine is about an inch long and after a year you really have to look for it because it's really healed well and is hard to see. I actually have a funny story about that because i have a tribal tat that's right where they had to cut and as i was waking up i said to my surgeon..." did you make sure to close my incision straight so it doesn't mess up my tat?" LOL!!! She thought it was hilarious but she did an excellent job.
None of want to have surgery but in my case i didn't have a choice......it was have surgery right now or you may never be able to urinate on your own and you will have to cath yourself the rest of your life and it was also incredibly close to the nerves that run to my legs and she said i could have been paralyzed had it been any closer. I had gotten to the point though that even if that hadn't have happened i would have opted for surgery because i never really suffered any back pain it was all in my leg because the disc was pressing on my sciatic nerve 24/7 and i had this immense burning feeling like my leg was on fire. After i had healed from the surgery i had no more sciatic nerve pain and no back pain whatsoever. I FELT GREAT!
I have DDD and basically my neuro has explained it to me like this......
Only 10% of that disc is left so much of the pressure is put on the discs right above it and that's why i have incurred the problems with my two herniated discs that i have now. When you have DDD you are put at a much larger risk for weakened discs so basically i'm always going to have back problems and there's not much that can be done about it other than treat the symptoms. The surgery isn't what caused the problems i have now, they would have happened surgery or no surgery and it sure was nice to be pain free for about 5mo. before my other discs started falling apart. My neuro says i need a 3 level fusion but i'm only 30 and she hates to do that because of the hardware falling apart over years of wear and tear and i would probably have to go back in and have it replaced so we are biding time for right now. Plus over in Europe they have made a material that is suppose to replace a disc so fusion doesn't have to be done but for now it's hasn't passed our FDA so i'm trying to hold out for that also.
As far as you and your hubby goes no worries on that home front. My instructions when i was released from the hospital were that i could do everyday activities but i needed to take it easy and listen to my body when it had had enough. No vacuuming for 2 weeks and no lifting anything over 10lbs. for 6 weeks, which meant no picking up my kids. I was able to go back to work after 2 weeks and that's right around the time that i felt good enough to want to play around some with my fiance
Hope you are doing well and i hear from you soon