| Re: recovery timeframes and finances
Dear aspen2cody, thank you for your kind thoughts, I will try to answer your questions. First, we have had about three other other opinions, two said he needs surgury right away, the other said wait if you can deal with the pain. He just can't deal with the pain anymore, and he is on so much pain medication he is either miserable from the pain or loopy on the meds, it's very rare to have a good day anymore. At his last appointment with the neurosugeon, his weakness and numbness had increased so much from the last visit that they wanted to do emergency surgury the next day, but we asked for a few days to get some plans together. Nobody seems to know why this has happened so early in life for him. He did go to military college and then the army, so he did a lot of physical exertion when he was younger and they think this might have something to do with it. We are hoping that because he is so young that he will recover quicker, but I guess you never know. We will cross that bridge when we come to it. He has about three months worth of sick time and vacation time that he can use, but his job doesn't offer anything else, and his department is so small that they don't have desk jobs, so he can't come back to work until he can resume all his normal activities. You said that you can't resume your normal activities for six months post surgury - does that mean you can run and play contact sports and heavy lifting? That is what he needs to be able to do to go back to work. I think with savings and me working overtime we could make it six months. What have other people experienced with this? I will try to read more on this site about recovery times, but most of what people talk about is returning to desk job type work. Are there any others out there who went back to physical jobs? Thanks again - Suzanne
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