Karin - it is a jolting reality.
The other reality is that a highly succesful treatment exists.
Most of us are pretty happy to take what's behind curtain number two. Maybe it wasn't the new Ferrari and a trip to Fiji behind curtain number one, but curtain number three was where the big ugly was hiding.
Think of all those wonderful things you'll be enjoying again in the future.
I've got my eye on Space Mountain.
We'll all be thinking of you!