WOW!

I honestly understand all of your pain and suffering and wish everyone here a better quality of life than they are currently experiencing.
This is my first post (and first visit to this board tonight). I am completely overwhelmed to find so many others with similar conditions and symptoms as I am experiencing. Needless to say... when you are feeling down and out, there is probably someone else who has been in your shoes and can provide comfort in the form of experience. I am hoping someone here can help me or steer me in the right direction. Here is a quick summary for me:
37 year old male, no history of back/spine disorders, very active, healthy. Never had surgery of any kind; worst injury is probably a sprained ankle.
Woke up Monday 7/23/06 with burning pain in left bicep/shoulder and stiff neck. Symptoms progressed with numbness in left thumb/index finger, cramping forearm and shooting pains down my left shoulder into the bicep region. Went to family doctor and he found diminished reflexes in left arm and diagnosed me with a cervical strain. Family Doc then prescribed Vicodin and Valium for pain management and scheduled PT for me. Pain became considerably worse after PT sessions and night and in the morning were becoming unbearable. PT recommended MRI and doc agreed. MRI performed 8/14/06. Diagnosed with Cervical Stenosis.
Some quick notes from the radiology report... there is anterior posterior widening of the C5, C6 and C7 vertebrae and corresponding discs. There is a additional spondylosis present at these levels which appears to be comprised of both hard and soft disc. This is resulting in attenuation of the ventral and dorsal subarachnoid spaces at C5-6 and C6-7. There are spondylitic changes at C5-6 and C6-7 which is resulting in moderate central canal stenosis at these levels and moderate ventral cord flattening at C6-7.
So my next step is to see a Neurosurgeon, but my appointment isn't scheduled until 9/21. I consider myself to have a decent tolerance of pain and find this to be the worst pain I have ever experienced (especially at night and in the morning). I cannot sleep lying down, run, ride in the car, climb stairs, etc. without experiencing severe pain in my neck, shoulder and bicep. It honestly feels like my arm is broken. My thumb and index finger are still numb and reflexes are absent. Now... if you are still with me here, these are my questions;
1) Is this a degenerative disease, meaning I will only continue to get worse unless I opt for some form of surgery?
2) Is there anything they can do to widen the canal without surgery?
3) I am assuming my nerves are being pinched which is causing all of my pain... can this become permanent if I wait too long for surgery.
4) Has anyone heard of or had laser spine surgery to treat spinal stenosis? Is this a new technology?
5) Has anyone heard of the laser spine institute institute? I am very skeptical by nature and wonder if this is some sort of scam. [url]http://www.laserspineinstitute.com/home.aspx[/url]
Don't mean to hijack this thread, but just looking for that one person out there that might provide me kwowledge and experience before my Neuro appt.
I honestly feel like I am too young for this to be happening to me (most cases appear at age 60 or so) and am terrified that i will never be the same as I was just one month ago. I have a two year old daughter that brings me to tears just thinking that I may not be able to enjoy normal activities with her as she ages. I am also tired of being on narcodics and feeling "loopy/tired" all the time.
Anyone?