I have the pain in the scapula thing, too. Its not horrible, but then again I have had severe spasms for the last 5 yrs., so this is better than it was. I have them in the trapezius, too. But all less than pre-surgery.
I had a NIGHTMARE situation with my ex husband of 8 yrs. (we were married for 20) yesterday (like you would NOT believe). He came over to get the dog and we had an altercation on the phone right before). Yea, we share the dog. (
). He yelled at me on the phone, which got me utterly upset (which my new husband wanted to kill him). By the time the ex showed up, I was not going to deal with him. But then he asked my husband about some figure that he needed to write me a ck. so I had to come downstairs. Well, I was EXTREMELY tired from going to the grocery store and a few horrible nights sleep, so I was in a state, shall we say. When he came over, he came into the kitchen, my current husband was sitting right there, and I got out EVERYTHING that I had been mad about for the last 8 yrs, that he has never owned up to. (cheating and some hitting). Right there in front of my new husband, my ex had to sit there and take it for about an hour). It was like something out of a freaking movie. I made him own up to all the stuff he did to me and I made him see the damage that moron caused me. I couldnt believe he didnt just walk out. He got so frazzled that when he wrote me a check, he miscalculated an extra $185.
Well, the ole neck started to KILL me from the tension. I had to take Valium AND Vicodin over this whole debacle. I cannot tell you how great it felt to get all that stuff out of my system and in such a safe environment with my gem of a new husband sitting there. How surreal, you guys!!!!!! whew. Can you imagine. It was a day of amazing closure. Pretty pathetic, to watch your ex sit there and admit that he was a big old cheater and abuser, right in front of the new hubby (of 5 yrs).