| Re: Bulging disc pressing on spinal cord
Marywoo, I haven't really got any advice, just sympathy. I am 52 and am presently almost bedridden with neck issues. I am waiting to see a surgeon in 6 weeks and had this acute episode with my neck for 4 months now. The tests I've had so far haven't shown much up. But the specialist wants me to have an EMG before I see him.
So far I've been coping ok, but lately, the pain has become a bit unpredictable, and I find my emotional nerves are becoming pretty frayed, because I don't "trust" my neck anymore. I don't know from day to day what it's going to do next.
So I can relate in a way to how you must be feeling... sometimes I get "mad" with my neck as though it's my enemy, and other times I get so frustrated, because life seems to be going to waste while I'm just lying around waiting. But then I try to think of people who are totally disabled, and living with terrible diseases, and I feel like I'm a whiner. But as someone said on this board, "when it's happening to you, it matters a lot".
Don't give up on seeking the right medical help. Sometimes you have to be persistent in getting through to them.
I like really my own GP a lot, and he is very kind and caring, but he didn't understand what I was trying to tell him. When I told him about the pain I was having, and how whenever I moved, my neck cracked, he said "Oh yes, I know how you feel. I get that too when I've sat my desk a while. I have to stretch and rub my neck and then I go, aaaah that feels so good".
Well, I felt like wrapping his neck with his stethescope, jabbing it with his reflex hammer and then turning it backwards for good measure, and saying, "No, NOW you might know what it feels like." Because that is just what it feels like and the "crack" I get is more like a bone snapping. Instead I just sat there wanting to cry, and wondering how I could explain how bad the pain really gets.
Finally, on my last visit, I said to him, I've given birth 4 times with no drugs, I've had back surgery, a hysterectomy, and 3 other surgeries, all without one whimper. I don't think I'm a sook, but this pain in my neck actually has the power to drop me to the floor, and make me yell.
That's when he decided to give me a referral to the surgeon.
I find it does help to read on here and know that there are people who will understand your fears and frustration and pain.
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