Hi Lexi,
Welcome to the site. Sorry I can't help with your problems, as I don't know that much about that type of stuff. Most of us have neck problems (there is also a "Back" board). But don't worry about the surgery stuff; most of have either been through it or are on tap to have it done. Of course it's serious business, and we don't ever take it lightly, but sometimes it cannot be avoided.
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