| Re: stroke/head trauma
sorry to hear about your wife,that really must be tough for the both of you.i am just wondering why she is taking the depakote?this is a mood stabilizer.was there a specific reason she is on this,did they think it would possibly make her a bit more "up" with regard to her mood or is this for her anxiety?
the other meds she is taking really are not the best choices for headache type pain,is she being treated by a neurologist or a physical medicine type doc(physiatrist?).do they actually know the extent of the damage from the stroke and the brain injury sepreately or have they not determined that?is she still recieving physical therepy?when my son ended up with a brain bleed from head trauma.he was in a rehab hosp for about a month then we had to take him back there three times a week just for mostly cognative therepy,then he still was going on and off thru the rest of that year.she may need more therepy if she is not progressing at all anymore and is also feeling non motivated because of the need for sleep,depression and or pain.all of this can be pretty hard on a person and can affect many different areas of their lives.depression 'could' be playing into this,really.when i ended up with a severe spinal cord injury,my whole entire life as i knew it just ceased to exist,totally.everything is now very different for me than it once was.i suffer from intermittant severe boughts of depression due to this and the other factors i deal with,one of which is very severe pain in five seperate areas for five seperate reasons.this can really have a huge impact on any and every part of your daily life.
she really does need much better pain management than she is currently getting for those headaches.head pain is really one of the most dibilitating types of pain since it can just effect your ability to really DO anything,you know what i mean?getting some control over this part of things would most likely help with the other areas alot.has she seen a pain management type of doc at all?this would be a good place to start.i don't know what i would do without my pain clinic.they really do know and understand all types of pain.this would just be one possible option for her.but you do need to check into more therepy if they have already stopped with her.she may just not be feeling really motivated in her current state at all.and i can totally understand that.her meds really do need some adjustment to ones ment just to try and control head pain,the hydro is really inadequte for her level of pain.
what this all boils down to is when you feel better,you DO better.right now,she is probably not feeling all that great and this is part of the problem in and of itself.she just needs a full eval again to try and determine a new course of action since the current one is obviously not working for her.perhaps a new set of docs would give a much better perspective?i wish you both lots of luck with this and do hope she can find new methods of relief.please let me know how things are going.Marcia
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