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Old 01-23-2009, 03:08 PM   #1
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hey there,

My Mom had a stroke back in August. Since that time her life and mine have change significantly. We had to place her in a nursing home a few weeks ago. I am finding that now all my Mom wants to do is sleep. I am starting to get concerned and am wondering if this is normal. Part of me wants to believe it is part of the healing process. If anyone out there has any advice or stories to share I would greatly appreciate it. I am not dealing with things all that well right now. If you would have asked me six months ago if this was the life my Mom would be leading I would have said "no way".

 
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I am so sorry about your mom's stroke, but I hope I can help you. I do not know the nature of your mother's stroke, or what other health issues she might have, but I am a 48 year old woman who survived 4 strokes (five years ago, due to malignant hypertension).

The sleeping is very common following a stroke. It is a time of healing. The brain is an amazing thing that will try and heal itself immediatly, thus the sleep. Be very patient with your mother, let her take her time.

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I am so sorry about your mom's stroke, but I hope I can help you. I do not know the nature of your mother's stroke, or what other health issues she might have, but I am a 48 year old woman who survived 4 strokes (five years ago, due to malignant hypertension).

The sleeping is very common following a stroke. It is a time of healing. The brain is an amazing thing that will try and heal itself immediatly, thus the sleep. Be very patient with your mother, let her take her time.
after my stroke, nurses just let me sleep...I don't think I have ever felt so sleepy but now (a few months later) I keep to a schedule, don't sleep too much and my wife wakes me up...but I still have to sneak a nap in sometimes.....of course, depends on meds too...I take meds for my seizures which make me sleepy......

 
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My sleeping pattern following my strokes has been very differant than before.

I actually spent the whole first year basically asleep. The second year I began to walk around again, but never alone. The third year, my speech got better. The fourth year, I began to drive again. Now, in the fifth year, I am back to riding my motorcycle in the desert, restoring my 48 year old truck, and feeling more and more like myself everyday.

Now, I'm not suggesting your moms case is anything like mine, but time does heal. I had some other signifigant health issues with the strokes, kidney failure, strokes on the retina's, heart attack, etc.

Now days, I still need 10-12 hours of sleep, mostly due to medications, as sumptersam mentioned. I've just adjusted to sleeping much more, and that's ok. My recovery is still in progress, and thank god for my understanding husband and kids.

I hope your mother continues to heal, and she is very lucky to have such a caring, loving daughter.

 
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Thanks to the both of you for your comments on my post. It gives me hope for my Mom. I have been having a bit of a hard time myself with the whole experience. We have placed my Mom in a nursing home and that has been a challenge for me. It is a struggle to trust anyone enough with the care of my little Mom.
My Mom has done well physically but cognitively she has some issues. She has alot of confused thoughts and sometimes sees or hears things that are not there. I wish for her that her mind will clear and she can have peace......and live a good life.

Thank you again for taking the time to reply to my....it really means alot.

 
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