Hi Angie,
It's been nearly ten years since I had my stroke.
I still haven't recovered the use of my lanft arm and hand.
It doesn't look like I ever will.
It's important that yuo try and find as many products and aids that you can find that you can utilize with just the use of your right arm and hand.
It's extremely frustrating and exasperating as you well know by now.
After years of research, I have found many products, especially to help bathing, dressing, cooking, eatting, driving amd working.
I think one of the best things I can say is that you must get into the mindset that you do only one thing at a time. Forinstance,if you go shopping. You are going to have to handle getting out of the car first, then just handle the groceries and then handle the baby. Trying to handle all at the same time will not only be difficult but will cause you to drop one or the other. At least that's been my experience. Trying to grab the packages, the baby and open the card door and get out was near impossible, especially with the use of only my right arm.
I can't tell you how many times I went out to dinner with a date and had to have my date cut the steak I ordered. Now, I've found so many products that are especially designed for single handed use (i.e. knives, can openers, clip-on ties, zipper grips, button hookers, etc.)
Try not to let the frustrations get to you. You'll proably get so angered that you might start taking it out on the baby.
Try to remain calm and patient. Eventually you'll succeeed.
Best regards,
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Angelo Gambino
Handi-Care Assistive Products & Solutions
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