I am the wife of a heart transplant recipient. My husband was on the list for 2-1/2 years. His was not the normal transplant case because he did have complications afterwards, but I agree about more info needs to be out there. There is a transplant resource group based out of Baltimore, but I would like to see more resources. The amount of people that die each year from the lack of donations is really huge. My husband and I have requested to be donors, and this was our choice even before we found out he needed a new heart. But there is one thing that everyone has to be aware of too. I don't know if it is just Maryland or what, but even though you might have it indicated on your license, please make sure that friends and family members know about your decision. We found out that if my husband were to die and our daughters don't sign the papers for donation they will not do it. So PLEASE make sure everyone knows about it. Also a few of my friends said they thought they would have to pay if they were to be donors. That is wrong--all the expenses are paid by the recipient's insurance. There is no cost to the donor's family.
And more importantly, be ready to ride an emotional rollercoaster. I think we hit every high and low around, and it is normal.
If anyone would like more info they can get the info from the Transplant Resource Center. Your local hospitals should have the address, or if you want, I can post it here. |