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Old 04-26-2009, 06:55 PM   #1
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how reliable is body language?

Just trying to figure out this guy and if he is flirting with me...we talk a lot but conversations have not veered into anything sexual or romantic, but I definitely get a "vibe" from him, he stands close to me, touches my arm, seems to seek me out in group situations, asks me a lot about myself, etc. etc. Can I assume if I'm feeling that vibe from him and getting the body language cues that he's attracted to me or could I just be way off base? Maybe he's like this with everyone...

 
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Re: how reliable is body language?

If you see him in group situations, then you can observe to see if he is treating everybody the same. Body language is an important part of communication, but it can also be misleading, as it is very easy to fake. Enjoy the vibes, but wait for a verbal signal. Sera.

 
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Re: how reliable is body language?

Yeah, I think the fact that he's like this with everyone is your biggest clue. Be warm and friendly and like Sera said, wait for a verbal cue. When a man is really into you, he lets you know it without question.

 
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Re: how reliable is body language?

the only way you will know is to observe him with other people.....

some body language may be able to be faked, sure, if you know what you're doing, but not all can....for instance, you can usually tell a real smile from a fake one, but in the instance of wanting to appear interested and open the body can be adjusted to that, just like if you want to appear closed minded or opposed to something you can cross your arms. no one would know that was faking, that would kinda be manipulation, but I'm sure there are people who work it......but it's not as easy to fake a genuine smile. You look at the eyes, and also how quick the mouth moves back to it's original position. Also look at the pupils. If someone is really into you their pupils will be big. It's an unconcious reaction the body has....when it see's something it likes it opens the pupils up wide to take more of it in.

 
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Re: how reliable is body language?

I find it to be fairly reliable, especially when you are young people. Older people have more resources to fake it. You might want to read a book on body language, that is, if you have the time, but from your description, there is something going on here. Now, what about the body language you are emitting yourself? Are you also signalling that you are interested in him? Yet, men usually have more difficulty picking up those signals than women. Try to be more objective.

 
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