| | DESPERATELY SEEKING ADVICE!!!!
I have a friend, who i call psycho, (though not to her face) because she is practically stalking me. Everyday, she calls me. "Where have you been? Where are you going?" she says, as if she's my mother and I need her approval before venturing out. God forbid I can't go out every single night of the week, she needs reasons why and then makes me feel bad about myself for saying no. And considering I introduced her to my bestest friend and she loves her and is this way with her now as well, we (my best friend and I) feel as if we can't go out by ourselves without feeling as if this psycho is going to be angry. If we fail to return a call, she drives around looking for us, and explodes in anger or in tears. I tell her I am working or going out with my family and yet she still pages me, 911 and when I anxiously call her back thinking something is wrong she's like, "Hey what's up?" She doesn't realize that her clinging so tight is pushing me further away from her because my nerves are shot. Not only is she that way, but she is very sensitive, high strung and over emotional. She obsesses over things to tears, and can only talk about herself and her current problems, a boy who didn't call but said he would, "What does 'talk to you later' really mean?" I give her all of my advice and get the feeling she's unhappy with me because it's not what she wants to hear. I feel like a bad feeling for having these strong feelings but I'm so fed up and have no where else to turn. Can anyone help me please?