There are a few things to consider first. first dont rush into this.
how long have you talked to this person?
have you talked on the phone?
if you have only talked a month or so I would wait.
PLEASE meet in a public place the first time.
Although it can be dangerous and scarry it can be great also.
I met my husband on the internet the best thing we ever did. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/love2.gif
we talked on the phone for several months before we met. and met with my friend in a public place.
you also said he was older than you how much older just curious?
be carteful and good luck
as for your mother let her know you are taking a friend and meeting in a public place to help ease your mind.
WISHIN FOR A BABY GIRL