i have not been molested, so i can't give you any insight on that topic, but i have read plenty of q&a questions in magazines where younger teen girls (like ages 11-16) are concerned about their fantasies about members of the same sex. truth is, it is perfectly normal to have occasional fantasies about this, its when these fantasies and your actions begin to outweigh the "normal" actions of your peers that gay/lesbian preferences are recognized...
i am aware that i cannot give my opinion or preach about this topic, but i would encourage you to just relax about these feelings and try to put the focus on heterosexual thoughts rather than the ****--your hormones (as well as everyone elses) are so screwed up that this age, that you can't take all your feelings as being your own convictions...i say just relax and see how this rides out.
Thought This Might Be of Use...Since Alot of Others Have It:
Updated on 6/18/02
August 1999: diagnosed with GERD and IBS...put on zantac, then aciphex
Spring 2000: diagnosed with TMJ...have lower splint
September 2000: hospitalized for failure to thrive due to malnutrition and dehydration; fed with ng tube for 3 months, put on prilosec
2001-02: developed chronic sinusitis/rhinitis from NG tube, put on nasonex and allegra
January 2002: switched GI's, diagnosed with hiatal hernia, switched to nexium, added peppermint oil, put on bentyl PRN for pain, zoloft for nausa
March 2003: IBS getting worse, switched PRN bentyl to BID levbid ER
May 2003: diagnosed with asthma from GERD, put on advair and singulair, albuterol PRN
May 2003: back pain and limited mobility, caused by 2002 car accident and dance injury, unidentified
April-June 2003: minor ear irritation and hearing problems, and extra sinus swelling, unidentified
May-June 2003: heartburn recurring even with meds!- GI put me on 40mg Pepcid Rx in the morning and at bedtime...Seems to be holding over till August...
July: chest x-ray came back, found mild thoracic scoliosis, and small "heart shadowing", EKG results are coming...