Well I guess it could be a test of your love. I went out with my first true love for over a year and then he had to move. I said I would keep the relationship going if I saw it could work, but here I am over a month later and I've heard from him by phone ONCE! He told me nothing would change, but obviously he has a new life. It is very sad. Sorry this is not so hopeful sounding but like I said, give it a chance maybe it will be different.