I lived in california for 1 year and i went out with derrick we have been going out for almost a year now and I had to move back to hawaii with my dad I miss him so so so much and he might have to move some because of his parents (military) and I'm not going out to california till christmas time I feel like killing myself sometimes!!!!
Well I guess it could be a test of your love. I went out with my first true love for over a year and then he had to move. I said I would keep the relationship going if I saw it could work, but here I am over a month later and I've heard from him by phone ONCE! He told me nothing would change, but obviously he has a new life. It is very sad. Sorry this is not so hopeful sounding but like I said, give it a chance maybe it will be different.
Hi there-
Long distance relationships are so difficult and painful and I know how you miss him!
The best thing you can do is keep those cards and letters and phonecalls flowing... Don't get lazy about this...it's all you guys have for now. Email if you have computers!
It is really really hard to maintain intimacy when you are apart but the next best thing is to keep communicating any way you can......And keep looking forward to Xmas!
I don't know what to do about my boyfriend 
