do you have any traits that you really really really like in a girl? i am just wondering, actually i am trying to prove a friend wrong because she said "looks are everything" please add your input. i would also just like to know what you think a perfect girl would be. lol
hey, to be perfectly honest, looks is a big thing but not every thing. see, chances are that your are going to see a girl before you talk to her, that's where looks come in. but, i mean, i wouldn't go out with someone that acted really snotty. unless the person is really ugly, i am so not trying to be shallow, they will probley not get a second look.
what i look for in a girl first is looks all lads do then secondly they have to have a great personality theres nothin worse than having a girl who has great looks but is a right <deleted> trust me looks aint everythin
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i used to think i liked looks first. looks is a turn on, yea, but theres something i found interesting over the last year. there is a girl that, 9 months ago, was not appealing at all. i did not find her attractive, etc. but we became best friends. now, i think she is one of the prettiest girls i have ever seen.
in short: looks are nothing; a personality will change (at least my) opinions on looks.. then that will lead to a perfect girl.
i COMPLETLY agree with you. (dark) once you get to know someone your opinion on how they look can TOTALLY change. it has happened to me numerous times and i could never explain it. but if the personality is great- usually they can seem much more attractive. (haha- does that make any sense?)
dark, I totally agree too. i once dated this guy who I though was soooo hot. Then he became such a jerk and we broke up and whenever I see him now -he seems so ugly to me and I don't know how I ever thought he was hot. When we first met he was the sweetest guy. personality has to go with looks. Thats why I think it's best to be friends first because then the relationship isn't shallow - a relationship based on looks isn't gonna last.
Well...I always used to say Looks , bottom line. I used to always go for the best looking girls and such.. But a year ago at a Football Game, I saw this girl, I didn't really see her much but she looked hot so I just went back to talk but couldn't find her. So my cousin from the other school said he knew her and gave me her number so I called her and talked for a couple months with out seeing her...she became the most attractive girl to me just based on personallity..Well I saw her and it was a different girl(my cuz got confused), but she was very beautiful person, even though I could care less what she looked like becasue she was the coolest person I met. We hang out now and are going out and its the best relationship Ive had..even though Ive only had a few being in 11th grade. But really I became attracted to a person becasue of their personallity and in the long run it was the right choice.
Perhaps the biggest thing that sways me one way or another about a girl is her hair. I cannot stand that blonde with black roots look. I love to see a brunette girl with silky smooth hair. Naturally blonde girls with curls is also very sexy.