Shrink said no gf, eh. Hate to be harsh, but I am calling bull. My best friend pulled that one on one of her x's (happened to be another close friend). Three days later, she was with someone else. I know you don't want to hear this...but move on. Don't let him drag you down with him. If it is meant to be he will come around. You are young, you should live. Don't have any regrets and wonder what if?. I have been there and is sucks. There are more productive things you can do than worry and wonder. I know it is hard and it will get better. Hold on to what life gives you but don't let go of what it doesn't. In other words..open your eyes to what is going on in front of you an just live.