Hun, i had, still do but not as bad, the same problem. Please don't screw your friends, chances are you'll lose them. And then you're stuck flirting with guys, which may not seem like a bad thing, but then you have no1 to brag about the ones you snag to lol. STILL FLIRT (not so aggressively though), but be sure to include ur friends when they are around. That's one of the reasons they are upset, that and because they wish they had the nerve to flirt too. You can't go out with a group of guys and girls, totally ignore the females, and flirt like crazy. You're friends are going to feel stupid and that will result in resenting u. Now to fix this problem, flirt with the guys for a few minutes, and then maybe ignore them for a little and just tlak to the girls. TWO PLUSES-The girls forgive you...and the guys will be wanting u more because ur playing hard to get! GOOD LUCK!