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Old 08-08-2003, 01:15 PM   #1
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I was just wondering if guys went mostly for looks, because I'm not the most beautiful girl but I have a LOT to offer and I feel like my looks aren't good enough sometimes.
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Old 08-08-2003, 11:36 PM   #2
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Well. Some guys are jerks. Infact, a lot of guys are jerks and go just for looks. But there are still some guys out there like myself who know how to treat a woman right. Looks are one part of it. But personality should be most of it. People have made "going out with ppl for their looks" such a bad thing that every decent guy has to only go out with a girl for her personality. Now I don't think this is right. I focus mainly on a womans personality but a small portion of it also comes from looks...but not all. Anyway, a lot of guys to focus only on looks but they shouldn't. The guys that focus on your personality will be the ones in the long-term relationships.

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Old 08-09-2003, 10:44 AM   #3
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Unfortunately, a lot of guys go for the "hott chicks" or girls that they think that are "easy". It's unfortunate, but it doesn't really matter because those guys are usually total jerks and are not worth it.

For most guys, however, looks are only part of it. There are a TON of guys out there who are not looking for looks but they look for personality... those are the ones that are worth holding on to because they are more likely to treat you right. Why would you want a hott guy that has a lame personality and doesn't treat you right? Donít get me wrong, just because a guy is hott, it doesn't mean that he won't like you for you and that he is a total jerk. As pandakat said, if a guy is looking for a long term relationship, they are more likely to focus on personality rather than looks.

You have a lot to offer, guys notice that!

 
Old 08-09-2003, 10:45 AM   #4
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Unfortunately, a lot of guys go for the "hott chicks" or girls that they think that are "easy". It's unfortunate, but it doesn't really matter because those guys are usually total jerks and are not worth it.

For most guys, however, looks are only part of it. There are a TON of guys out there who are not looking for looks but they look for personality... those are the ones that are worth holding on to because they are more likely to treat you right. Why would you want a hott guy that has a lame personality and doesn't treat you right? Donít get me wrong, just because a guy is hott, it doesn't mean that he won't like you for you and that he is a total jerk. As pandakat said, if a guy is looking for a long term relationship, they are more likely to focus on personality rather than looks.

You have a lot to offer, guys notice that!

 
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