i just posted a new topic but i need advice again... my boyfriend and i just broke up about a week ago because i found out that he was always talking to his friends about personal stuff about him and me, and i got mad cuz that stuff is supposed to be private. so, to get back at him, i slept with his best friend, and now i really regret it. his friend is really trust worthy but i'm still afraid that he'll find out. at first i wanted him to find but now i don't. should i tell him before he hears it from someone else?
i'd rather hear it from the girl. that way if she's sorry about it, she can say so. then the betrayed fealing isn't as bad. if he learns from somewhere else, he'll never believe that you're sorry for what you did.
If you broke up with him and aren't gunna go back out with him I don't see any point in telling him. His best friend probably won't tell because he was just as wrong as you were. If you do want to get back together you need to tell him.
If you are not getting back together, don't worry about it, however,You said "his friend is really trust worthy but i'm still afraid that he'll find out."... I doubt his friend is that trust worthy or his friend would not have slept with you. So, if you do plan on getting back together, I would be worried.
why did i do it 
