like i mean are girls impressed by ripped bodies and being good at sports. How big a turn off is some acne. What can us guys do to get with you! ahaha just jokin but i mean what things do u like in a guy.
I like a guy who doesn't try too hard to get on my good side, yet.. I don't like a guy who doesn't try at all. Not having the same likes are OK. Just be yourself, don't act as a pushover,or showoff. Just get a girl with your itelligent, funny, and nice personality. Ripped bodies are not a big thing, although they are a turn on. And as for acne, honestly.. I rarely notice it.
I see it like this.. when you focus on something on yourself more, the more you will focus to that part on other people. Whether its something you like or don't like about yourself. I tend to focus a lot on a guys hair and eyes. When a guy has great hair and eyes its a big *thumbs up* from me.
Quitters always lose, and winners never give up.
Sure I'm impressed by a ripped body; but it certainly doesn't mean that I'm attracted to it. Acne never bothered me - it happens to most people, and you really cannot control it...so why should it matter?
Personally, what I'm attracted to (rather than impressed by) is a guy with a good sense of humor, someone who's modest, and someone who knows what he wants. Someone who's easy to talk to. Physically...well, eyes do the trick for me, as well as goooooood shoulder muscles.
I am attracted to geeky guys lol. My friends make fun of me because my type is short scrawny and pale. I dont know, there is just something about geeky looking kids. Anywho. To answer your question. I just want to be comfortable with a guy. Someone i can trust. I wouldnt be the one who would just start dating someone after one day. I would have to know them. I find it much easier to do that because it is easier to read them. You know what they are thinking and you know what makes them smile or cry or happy. Physical appearance doesnt mean anything to me. You could be the ugliest person ever but if your personality rocked, i would be with you in a second. I also feel that the person grows more attractive when you like them. I hate guys that are cocky. I really dont know any girl who does, except for a cocky girl. You just have to be yourself and have fun. So there you go, that is my point of view.
Just dont act too immature around girls....cause alot of guys at my school are totally immature in what they say and do and are always being perverted and cussing because for some reason they think it looks really cool. Im not saying you shouldnt ever cuss or anything just watch what you say around girls and just be a sweet guy ...in other words just be yourself. Cause even tho girls laugh when youre immature most of them think you just sound like an idiot
Guys should be genuinely nice, polite, and think of the girls best interests. He shouldn't be always trying to get into bed with her. He should be sweet, romantic, and not immature. Immature guys are a HUGE turn-off. Maturity is definately the key I think..
Mommy to Amber Josephine -July 10,2005-
Sense of humor is really important to me. Good manners are as well. Maturity is also important, and I am incredibly attracted to really intelligent guys. As far as looks go, the acne isn't a problem as long as it isn't overwhelming, and a great personality can definitely make up for "not so great" looks.
A guy who smokes is a turn off for me. Acne isn't, as long as the guy is himself regardless.A sporty guy is attractive, I must admit, but guys who show off and try to prove something to a girl just make us girls cringe- sorry guys!!!!!!
to me, (and all girls are different and we have our opinions) guys need to respect the girl more than anything! treat her nicely..especially in front of his guy friends, thats really important. a guy who ignores his girl..or girl "friend" who he likes or acts stupid around her is just a jerk. be respectful, caring. i personally go for scawny guys lol, not too scrawly but im thinking frankie munez skinny if you know what i mean, lol. acne..not something you can control BUT i dont like it at all, at least try things to get rid of it. hope i helped, like i said, were all different so you cant exactly be mr right for everyone. later homies
superfically, i like guys who dress nice, who put gell in their hair and spike it in the front, and guys who always have a little bit of "rough" on their faces, but not any identifiable facial hair..thats cute..
on the inside, i like a guy who is funny, who appreciates my personality(the good and bad), who makes the most of the intellect that he has been given, who is polite (opens doors for me, walks me to my car, checks up on me), and i also go for guys that are kinda on the shy side, i like being the dominate personality, but still the "female that wants taken care of" at the same time...confusing.
btw, the acne, guys don't have to have clear skin to be totally hot, and i myself probably have just as many blemishes as any guy i've been interested in, if not more...
hope this helps
Thought This Might Be of Use...Since Alot of Others Have It:
Updated on 6/18/02
August 1999: diagnosed with GERD and IBS...put on zantac, then aciphex
Spring 2000: diagnosed with TMJ...have lower splint
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2001-02: developed chronic sinusitis/rhinitis from NG tube, put on nasonex and allegra
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Well, I can't speak for all the girls, but from past experience I think that a guy who is himself is a plus. I think a good way to win the heart of a girl is to be emotionally connected with her. Most girls like the mushy gushy stuff so sometimes a guy has to talk to her emotionally and really tell how they feel. Just be careful not to do it all the time, they might think that you are gay . A guy that stands out from everyone (humorous) is a good plus.
I think a guy should be able to be himself around you. And if they can, then that is a major thing to me. I don't like guys that smoke, do drugs, dip, or drink. I also like guys that have a decent relationship with God, that don't think they are better than me (that we can be equals and he excels at things and I excel at things). I won't date a guy that isn't a virgin. For a guy to impress me, he has to be himself, cute is always a plus, but I don't like those gorgeous hunks that think they are all that. Just a little cutie, that doesn't even realize he is adorable. A nice body is a bonus, but that doesn't really matter to me. I don't care about acne, I don't like a lot of facial hair, but a little is ok. Tempers are a major turn off for me. I hate guys that have tempers. They scare me. I like it when I guy can be sensitive and romantic too. In touch with his feelings and mine, but not to an extreme.
True Love Waits, so if it's true love. They will also be waiting for you. "Live Life to the Fullest. Live it Straight and Don't Die Young"
me, being a guy, well i'm not the most coolest guy, i don't have big muscles(there big, but not huge)i don't have a six pack or sh*t like that...i'm just myself...i promise u dude, girls go for that stuff, just like the other girls have said in this thread...i have a friend who is a f*cken lil' kid.....he acts like one when a girl is around him that he thinks shes 'hot'.... really immature...just like the other guys in my other classes...their loud, cuss, talk about how many b*tches they get.......but for some reason everyone(the guys) think they're cool?..***....
b...u..t girls talk to me in a different way, like they trust me, i don't act like the other a$$holes in my class, and i'm in the 11th grade!...but yeah dude, act a lil' more grown up...it will work...trust me
[This message has been edited by Brujeria (edited 05-21-2003).]
good sportsman ship
makes others laugh
not a bigot
not rude and redneck
intellgence ( enough to get an educated answer)
the ability to talk to adults and act like an adult when needed to
and of course looks are a definite plus 8) +++++++++