Well heres the story.
I've known this girl since I was in elementary school. Now we are both high school seniors. We've been good friends. During middle school she'd call me everyday and talk. Our sociality grew apart when we got into highschool. I missed having talks with her. We'd talk about everything even the boys she liked (annoyed me) but I tried to be understanding. Now we've gotten to talk to each other again. As I found out im her co-worker at a local restaurant. I've liked her for so long... gah! She's so sweet and friendly. I've never gotten any hints that she likes me intimately but only as a good friend. I'd like to change that. I'd like to slowly tell her or show her how I feel about her. Any suggestions
[This message has been edited by ShyAzNGuy (edited 08-18-2003).]
well maybe you should alot more time with her. Maybe you could ask her what she thinks of you. If the answer is good then u should have a great chance. If she says she only wants to be friends then you should ask her if maybe someday you could be more then that. I think it sould work.
If you tell her(and you probably should), be earnest and gentle. Make sure she's not going through a rough time and avoid anything too intimate before she accepts you as a romantic option. Finding out a guy friend is in love with you can really freak you out. You'll have to give her some time to get used to the idea. If she makes it clear that she isn't interested, let it go. It's not worth losing a good friend.