I am 16 yr old male white male which has tan skin... A lot of people said they liked my skin... It is like a cali person tan. I just don't got the blonde hair. Anyway, online when girls see my picture they say i am cute. Offline I get nothing at school, i am shy and have a low self esteem i think... So i don't talk to girls,really... Soo yea i know this is messy,but.. Do white girls not like tan skin??? i mean i got more hits off black girls than white. I don't do anything black... I listen to punk musick for god sake... I don't know...
NO WAY. Up until this year I didn't have a type and BAM! TAN BOYS TAN BOYS TAN BOYS. Not many people perfer the pastey ones over tan, consider yourself lucky. As for why african americans hit on you more, I can't answer that one, nor can I answer why the whites ones dont often. Loosen up, be funny, be natural, don't act like your nervous and self concious when you talk to girls. I was once very surprised when this boy talked to me as if we were old time friends when I considered this kid extreemly shy, I was very impressed and now I think he's really cool. I actually brought him up in a conversation with a few of my friends and mentioned how interesting he seemed. It's easy to change someones veiw on you if they think your shy. Just start a normal conversation. Don't act like you're hitting on them, you're not sure if they'll be turned off yet, get to know a few people. Chances are they will mention you to your friends whom will want to get to know you also.
tanned guys are hot!! Most girls don't really go for the albino type. I agree with the other post. It's probably that you are shy. I used to be shy with people other than my friends and the first time you try and talk to other people it seems kinda hard but it gets easier. You need to build up your confidence some day or you will have trouble doing things like job interviews and such
it is not bad to be tan. I mean im a cali and people always notice there tans. I will tell u the truth. Many white girls have a low self esteem,all they care about are looks not personality only looks. Well i would say I am (im white) but im not popular so im not like that but that is how it is only at my skool. It hurtswhen u get treated that i way.
lol it doesn't HAVE to be it. But, it's possible SOME girls use that for a reason. I myself do not go for skinny guys, I'm into the more muscular type. But, I've met guys who were good looking and had wonderful personalitys who were small and I liked them still. I really feel it's your shyness. Going up to a girl and saying "hey" and starting a conversation is one of the most attractive things a guy can do. As long as it's not arrogant.
tan guys r attractive as i said b4- but personality has everything to do with it.. if i can't have an intelligent convo wit sum1- i dont wanna b there gf! skinnyness has notin to do wit it either. i personally like guys wit a little pudge- if there boney, they dont look healthy-looks dont matter in the long run- unless of course u wanna b a sex god-lol!!!
**shy guys r cute too - its great to have them open up to u**
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