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Old 08-29-2003, 10:24 PM   #1
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Well there's girl melissa, and I've known her since she moved to my area, which was in first grade. I've had a crush on her pretty much ever since, an off and on type of thing. She's had a thign for me too, but not lately like past year. The problem is I get really nervous around her (only her) and I don't know what really to say to her, like conversation starters and stuff. Also, how do I know if she's interested. Some tips would be extremely helpful. Thanks a lot. (by the way i flirt a lot, it's jsut around her i get nervous, thats how I know i really care about her)
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Old 08-30-2003, 09:38 AM   #2
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The best and easiest way to find your answer is to just be straightforward. "Do you like me?" It would be hard to work out and would take a lot of nerve- but there's the best way to find your answer. If you aren't feeling that outspoken, just ask her who she likes in general.

 
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Old 08-30-2003, 09:46 AM   #3
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i really have a hard time believing lovely lady on everything she posts because it doesnt seem that shes a teen or knows anything about psychology of females at all.....
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Old 08-30-2003, 01:38 PM   #4
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Ah ha sickness, I found it.

Perhaps not, I don't have too many "typical girlfriends." The girls I DO hang out with are great- they don't gossip, they don't cry over the little things, they never talk about who's hot and who's not, and they're never asking me about my relationship with my boyfriend. I absolutely adore it. We all try to break away from the typical shallow gossipy girls and just be ourselves and have fun. So, sorry if I sound "different" somehow.

 
Old 08-30-2003, 03:11 PM   #5
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i hate typical females it sometimes seems as if their arent any actual "ladies" in the world sometimes you understand what i mean but you seem very nice so sorry
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Old 08-30-2003, 03:27 PM   #6
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No need to be sorry! I wasn't offended at all. I think everyone needs to try and break away from their stereotypes... I hate the media's portrayal of people. Cheerleaders are popular, color guard girls are reject wannabe cheerleaders, chess clubbers are nerds, jocks are popular and preppy. It's rediculous. I find some girls intentionally trying to act ditzy and 'blonde' at my school, which I find rediculous. I find that high schoolers and even college students tend to be very shallow, and I don't understand it. I don't think the point of dating is just have fun, have your way, and break up, I think people should look for meaning and fulfillment in relationships. What am I rambling about?!!!

 
Old 08-30-2003, 03:40 PM   #7
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you just blew my mind...it was incredible all this time i thought no one in the world had those same ideas as me and it honestly drove me insane...im so glad that there is a you in the world nice to meet you
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Old 08-30-2003, 03:41 PM   #8
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i go to a community college and believe me they still have high school mentality's....it tears me apart sometimes,most of them are very ignorant
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Old 08-31-2003, 11:33 AM   #9
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You too...

It would be nice to think that people going off to college would mature a little bit more and step out of the drama and shallowness. Fortunately for some that is the case, for others it remains the same. I've never been huge on partying/drinking and whatever, I see it as a waste of time, and trying to conform in with a group. I'd like to think I'm not a conformist. I like to think outside of the box and be different from most people. I see so many other ways to have fun then intoxicating your body. We go dancing all the time, just without the effects of alcohol. I'm not a typical teeny bopper!

 
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