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Old 08-31-2003, 01:59 PM   #1
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Arrow What is wrong with me?

I don't know why but this year of high school I have hated going.(I am in 10th grade) Last year it was fun.. But now I don't feel like getting up.. and when I go the people seem to just get on my nerves. It isn't like I am an outcast.(I am one of the most popular girls in my grade) This year just seems different.. I was just wondering if this has happened to anyone and if they have some adivce... If you do that would be great! *THANKS*
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Old 08-31-2003, 04:57 PM   #2
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Hey, it happens to everyone. But just keep telling yourself that, you said it yourself, you're popular. But being popular won't exactly make you happy. There are other things.

I have some quetions though. What changed? Did something happen that turned everything upside down?

"Just get on my nerves?" ---> why? I'm pretty sure you've got other problems. And you may probably just project your anger and loneliness to others.

It may help if you know the reason why this year is different.


 
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Old 08-31-2003, 05:55 PM   #3
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I completely agree with hot ice i mean what is the difference between this year and last year...did somthing happen to you over the summer??

 
Old 08-31-2003, 09:37 PM   #4
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Try doing something new, or join a new class. You probablly feel like change or are stuck in a schedule.

 
Old 09-02-2003, 04:59 AM   #5
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Are you feeling depressed or are you unhappy about something outside of school? Depression and anxiety can often mess with you and affect areas of your life that you enjoy and are happy with. Stress (even just from hormones!) often makes you irritable which could explain the "getting on your nerves" bit.

Maybe you just need to take a back seat for a while, take a break from the popularity contest in school and just concentrate on your school work - you're at an age where you're getting to know the real "you" so maybe you're too busy getting to know who you are & what you want from life to cope with some of the demanding and superficial social aspects of high school?

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Old 09-02-2003, 12:34 PM   #6
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Hey, the same thing happened to me the end of last year. Luckily, it was when school was getting over. But I just got sick of everyone, and the thing that helped me was just hangin out with some different people and taking a little time away from everything. If you want to talk more, I will just tell [removed]
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Old 09-02-2003, 01:53 PM   #7
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Hey y'all! Thanks for all the advice... Things still aren't great but they are a lil better. A lot happened this summer... A lot of it I didn't really want to, But I am okay now. I have been spending a lot of time with my close friend that I knew since I was little.(she doesn't go to my school) I hope the end of the year is better. I can keep y'all updated if you want. [contact info removed] Thanks again!
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