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Old 09-07-2003, 03:15 PM   #1
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Post Do guys like girls to approach?

I spent my summer learning to be alone because a long relationship ended last year and I needed to become more independent. I really did well with that. I had a great summer and a normal fling with a great guy. Now I am back in school and I find I really like this guy in my art class. He is a senior (Im a junior) and I have never seen him before. Since its been a while since I was dealing with guys and school I am not sure if I should make the first move. I make eyes contact with him and he sees me and looks away really fast. I do not exactly know what I should do. What really gets a guys attention?

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Old 09-07-2003, 04:32 PM   #2
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yes absolutely, guys love it when a girl approaches and talks to him or asks him out, well thats how i got my first, lol, so absolutely approach!, approach! , approach! i hope this helps.


Old 09-07-2003, 04:49 PM   #3
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I cant really approach during class. Its really hard and then I lose my courage. What do I say to him? I feel intimidated. What if he has a girlfriend or just thinks I am completely weird for talking to someone I never talked to?

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Old 09-07-2003, 11:06 PM   #4
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Ok, This comment is from a guys point of view ( me bein one) so just get that straight.

Guys LOVE chicks to approach them. If nothing else, it makes them fell as if their wanted.

Now, if he DOES have a girlfriend, it could get Awkward, but he'll mostly understand, and still want to be friends,
(Guys luve having chicks as friends aswell, the whole wanted factor again)

If u feel strange approaching him in class, see if u can talk to him befor or after school, durin lunch ect.

Another idea is to talk to one of his friends (If your ok with that). U can usually find out EVERYTHING u need to know about a person from a friend.

If all else fails, simply get one of your friends to tell him how u feel. No courage needed
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