GOT DRUNK...I DID SOMETHING I REALY REGRET...HELP!!
i was over my friends house the other night...(lets call her Josie)...and my other friend was over there too (lets call her Riley) well, we were REALLY bored so we decided to sneak some bear and this other stuff that burns your throat when you swalow...lets just say that me and Riley drank a little more then expected and got completly SmAsHeD http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/hammer.gif while Josie only got a little more then buzzed...we woke up with the expected hangover and no memory of the night before...that's when Josie said that Riley and I got to 3rd when we were drunk while she was sitting on the couch...i cant get over this, because i'm kindof a homeophobic and i cant believe i did this, and i'm kindof mad at Josie for just sitting back and letting us do that...i would NEVER do this if i wasnt drunk, and i dont even remember doing it...i KNOW that Josie wasnt lyeing though, because i was wearing rileys underwear and she was wearing mine in the morning....GROSS...i cant get this out of my head...PLEASE HELP....sorry if this was kinda nasty...
Many people have done some stupid stuff when they were drunk. I know I have. Atleast it was your friend and not some total stranger. There really isn't anything you can do about it. Talk to your friend and make sure things aren't weird with you both now. Sometimes things like that happen when you are drunk. Try to be more careful next time. Also, you really can't be mad at your friend for just sitting there and not doing anything. She wasn't completely with it either, and for all she knows, you could have wanted to do what you did. Just talk with everyone and clear the air.
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Game over. I had to accept the fact that in life some women are simply better and no amount of shoes or lack of pastry or making of pies will change that. I will never be the woman with the perfect hair who can wear white and not spill on it and chair committees and write thank you notes. And I can't feel bad about that.
Carrie, ~SATC~
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Game over. I had to accept the fact that in life some women are simply better and no amount of shoes or lack of pastry or making of pies will change that. I will never be the woman with the perfect hair who can wear white and not spill on it and chair committees and write thank you notes. And I can't feel bad about that.
Carrie, ~SATC~
I don't think you should worry about it. When you're drunk or high you're in a different state of mind and you may see things differently. At least you don't even have to remember it because you drank so much.
Personally, I also feel your friend should have stopped you, or at least not told you. I hope your friendship with the other girl isn't destroyed over something stupid that you did because of alcohol. Just forget it, it wasn't really you, it was the drink. Best wishes.
Originally posted by 50000TearsIveCried: Personally, I also feel your friend should have stopped you, or at least not told you. I hope your friendship with the other girl isn't destroyed over something stupid that you did because of alcohol. Just forget it, it wasn't really you, it was the drink. Best wishes.
I've done stupid stuff when I was less than sober and you really can't blame it on anyone but yourself. If you're gunna drink you should do it responsibly and know your limits.
"I've done stupid stuff when I was less than sober and you really can't blame it on anyone but yourself. If you're gunna drink you should do it responsibly and know your limits."
yeah, you're right about that. But a friend should be responsible enough to help out another...I would have, but then again...that girl is in charge of herself and should have known to be smart about drinking.
Originally posted by 50000TearsIveCried: yeah, you're right about that. But a friend should be responsible enough to help out another...I would have, but then again...that girl is in charge of herself and should have known to be smart about drinking.
I see both sides of it.. Her friend could have done something about it but maybe since she was also a little buzzed she wasn't thinking straight.
hehe yeah... i used to drink and all crap last year ... and let me tell you how much i regret! but hun things happen and all you can do is learn from your mistakes!
Let me get this straight: you are mad at your friend because you made a decision to drink and are now mad with the consequences of that decision?
Welcome to the real world. For every action there will be consequences, some good and some bad. You know the consequences before hand, but in this situation you accepted them the moment you began drinking. Thus it is your fault and not your friend's.
thank you everyone....i'm not MAD at my friend, i just WISH she did soemting to stop me...i understand it was my fault, and i did an irresponsible thing, but she could have said someting
I don't think you should worry about it, there's nothing that you can do or say that will change what happened. Everyone does stupid things when they're drunk... I've never met anyone who hasn't. Don't worry about it.
Originally posted by abbygirl3112: thank you everyone....i'm not MAD at my friend, i just WISH she did soemting to stop me...i understand it was my fault, and i did an irresponsible thing, but she could have said someting
Yeah, but wishing isn't gonna change it. I just hope this is a reminder for the next time you decide to get drunk. You're in charge of yourself, some friends in life will help you out of these situations, some wont. But don't take the chance of finding out. You're friend COULD have said something, and she COULD have not, unfortunatly she chose not. Be responsible about this in the future. I'm not telling you to not drink or get drunk, I don't know many people who don't in highschool, I'm just saying prepare for the consequences. Good luck!
man i dont know but, if she told you you did something, that means she liked it right, so i suggest you dont drink and do it again :P and maybe you could like really become good buddies Fu*king buddies its allways good to have one
no offense girl but that was really gross....Why did you have sex with your friend???And a girl too.... Just relax.You were drunk....There was nothing you could do about it.Just remember to never get drunk again....
Originally posted by drag0n: man i dont know but, if she told you you did something, that means she liked it right, so i suggest you dont drink and do it again :P and maybe you could like really become good buddies Fu*king buddies its allways good to have one
uhm...drink all you want, dont learn a lesson. when your 70 with the few friends you have left, you'll have somthing to talk about
in the end, its experiances and memories that count.
i hope your friendship isn't *** up, but from experiance, the truth of your personality comes out when your drunk, or highly buzzed...my friend admitted he was gay when he was drunk once, and he always has said comments (as a joke) that were a little bit above the limit..and a girl i know for years once confessed her 'obsesssion' with me, which wierded me out, but honestly, people do say homophobes are usually ****'s, so truthfully, take an honest look at yourself, maybe your sexuality is in question...this is not ment to offend you, just somthing you should think about!!!
That's something to think about. I mean, I could easily get drunk and do something sexual...with a male. But, if I were drunk and there were only females in the room, I wouldn't want to do anything with them. I'd most likely leave the room and go streaking down the street. Perhaps you are some what attracted to your friend and through homophobia you deny it to yourself. Just because you're drunk doesn't mean every1 in the room is a sex object, maybe deep down you wish to do it even sober?
okay...
1. i DID NOT HAVE SEX WITH MY FRIEND...
2. I WAS NOT ONLY DRUNK...I WAS COMPLETLY WASTED..BEYOND WHAT SOMEONE WOULD CONSIDER DRUNK
3. I AM NOT A LESBIAN
4. I AM IN NO WAY ATTRACTED TO MY FRIEND
5. THERE WERE NO MALES IN THE ROOM SO I COULD NOT HAVE DONE SOMETHING WITH ONE OF THEM
6. IM SURE IF THERE WERE MALES IN THE ROOM I WOULD HAVE DONE SOMETHING WITH THEM, NOT MY FRIEND
7. I AM MOST DEFINENTLY NOT A LESBIAN
thanx for all of your help though....
GOT DRUNK...I DID SOMETHING I REALY REGRET...HELP!! 
Fu*king buddies 
