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Old 09-08-2003, 06:49 PM   #1
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Question Leading you on?

How can you tell if a guy is leading you on?

 
Old 09-08-2003, 09:40 PM   #2
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That's just the part that totally sucks-- you can't until it's too late... most of the time. But, some signs may be he flirts with other girls, he's cheesy, he blows you off a lot... ya know.

 
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Old 09-09-2003, 07:27 AM   #3
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Look for the same cues that girls use to lead a guy on.

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Old 09-09-2003, 09:04 PM   #4
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I know this sounds dumb, but I've never led a guy on, so what are the cues that a girl shows when she's leading a guy on... and more importantly, what are the cues that a guy is leading a girl on?

 
Old 09-10-2003, 07:25 AM   #5
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Leading you on means he's making you think that he wants to be in a serious relationship with you, but he really doesn't. Signs are: promises he doesn't keep, treating you differently in front of other people, talking bad about you behind your back, interested in you only physically but not wanting to talk about you and your emotions, paying more attention to other girls... basically, anything that makes you feel that he's not really that interested in having a relationship with only you.

If you've noticed something that he does and you're not sure what it means, feel free to post here and we'll give you our opinions.

 
Old 09-11-2003, 04:38 PM   #6
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He's been very nice to me, he's nice to me in front of people, and when it's just the two of us. Sometimes, though, he's mean to a girl friend of mine. I understand why, she completely stalks me, but that's still no excuse. I don't know, he acts like he really likes me, but he... has a wall surrounding him. I don't know if that means that he is not ready, or that he's just leading me on. Any suggestions?

 
Old 09-12-2003, 06:28 AM   #7
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It's very likely that if he has a wall around him that he's afraid to commit to a relationship (which could be for a number of reasons). I would just go ahead and ask him if this is leading anywhere and if he's interested in having more than just a friendship with you.

 
Old 09-12-2003, 07:22 PM   #8
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Thanks for your advice! I am just so freaked out, I've never really asked a guy out... I dunno... call me old fashioned... any advice?

 
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