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Old 08-27-2003, 07:37 PM   #1
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i have a question that i am guessing other guys would like to know too. I am not a super hot model type of guy but am not ugly. anyway i was wondering weather looks or personality are more important to girls. thanks

 
Old 08-27-2003, 08:02 PM   #2
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Um, what do you call that, oh yeah. "Love at first sight" or rather "lust at first sight."

You see, it only takes 2 minutes to impress anyone. And looks can do that in that short of time. Personality, however, would take weeks or even months.

A crossed-eye or a midget or acne guy would definitely be a turn off (not unless the girl isn't shallow)

BUT in the long run, people cannot and would not stand for a good looking person with a bad attitude. They'd rather live their lives with a plain person with a big heart.

But you said you're not ugly, just not model material. So you'll be fine. Besides, some people may find others attractive and some may not.

 
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Old 08-27-2003, 08:19 PM   #3
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i would rather date a guy that was alright looking and had an awesome personality than a guy who was cocky and had a horrible personality! but thats just me

 
Old 08-27-2003, 09:24 PM   #4
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hmm this got me thinking lol usually say personality is more important..but when u think about it u wouldnt go up and talk to some ugly guy, ud make sure he was kind of cute b4 talking to him..so u look for some1 cute with a great personality! (at least i do)

 
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Well I know not all girls go 4 looks. I am not the looking type, i am the attitude,personality type. I just thought u ought 2 know that there are people like that. godschick01- sorry if i am not that much of a help.

 
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I think that they are equal.... I don't like a really ugly guy... But I also wouldn't want a guy that has a sucky personality... So it just all depends on the guy.. (all around)
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Old 08-31-2003, 09:38 PM   #7
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Personality is way more important, but looks have to be there for attraction.

 
Old 09-02-2003, 02:24 PM   #8
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Well personally I think personality is more important than looks, looks go away years down the line. If some guy was hott as hell but was a total *** then I wouldn't waste my time.

 
Old 09-02-2003, 02:58 PM   #9
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well..all girls look at the face..but to me it doesnt mean as much.. they huy i liek now..he is defianetly not the best looking guy in the school...but he is really sweet..and that is probably why i like him..just have a good personality


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Old 09-13-2003, 07:58 PM   #10
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If the personal is there and it is great then it should make up for the looks but just cuz you may be hot doesnt mean you can control everyone and think your a big hot shot cuz you aint.. no matter what.. the perfect guy would be a personality to die for and knows how to treat a lady..
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Old 09-13-2003, 09:59 PM   #11
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Everybody has his/her own definition of handsome/pretty/beautiful/cute/hot/whatever...I hope you see my point.

 
Old 09-14-2003, 10:19 AM   #12
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It just depends on the girl. The first thing most girls notice is looks, but if the guy has a rotten personality, that is a total turnoff and most girls would not waste their time. I def think that personality is more important, what someone lacks in looks, it'll make up for in personality. Besides, looks are going to be lost when you get older...

 
Old 09-14-2003, 10:33 AM   #13
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well i have the hugest crush on this guy and hes not that hot but hes so sweet and has such a gr8 personality. as long as guy isnt like really really ugly than i dont care as long as i like their personality. so im not shallow

 
Old 09-14-2003, 12:00 PM   #14
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Me and my guy friend were talking about this just the other day, and we agreed that anyone who says that looks don't matter is definitely kidding themselves. I mean, what attracts you to a person in the first place? Their looks right? I guess maybe if you've known a person for a long time then you start liking them for their personality, then that's an exception. But anyways, yes, looks do matter. I'm not shallow, it's not like I only go out with hot guys. But he can't be really ugly either.

 
Old 09-14-2003, 12:23 PM   #15
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Honestly, looks is the first thing you notice, but it's their personality that defines their being. Being attractive to someone isn't based on just looks alone, there are many characteristics that are considered attractive...

 
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