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Old 01-17-2004, 04:00 AM   #1
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first date..etc

i like this girl..

must i tell her about my love or just ask her for the first date first..

what to do to find out if she likes me before going on date/ telling her i like her.

how to find out if she has bf?

that girl frequently messages me, calls me and talks to me online. i dunno if she likes me.

any tips, etc?? pls help.. thx

 
Old 01-17-2004, 01:34 PM   #2
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Re: first date..etc

hmmm....
jus talk to her freely and play it 'cool'. theres nothing really to be worried about, jus ask her is she with someone while in a convosation.
if she is, then what can you do!! if she isnt, then be nice to her and your in!
after a while ask her out on a date. if she says yes...
if she says no, a well, plenty more fish in the sea,

anyway...back to if she says yes.

what i would do is take her to the cinema 1st, then for a bite to eat.
well it seems your not old enough to drink so thats what id do!

be nice to her for the evening, then after that, ye both either like or dislike eachother!

thats what id do anyway. i dunno about other people. my ways seme to work, iv been with my girlfriend now for about 6 months, everything is brilliant, so best of luck and hope it goes good for you.

 
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Old 01-17-2004, 03:23 PM   #3
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Re: first date..etc

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Originally Posted by taka6^
i like this girl..

must i tell her about my love or just ask her for the first date first..

what to do to find out if she likes me before going on date/ telling her i like her.

how to find out if she has bf?

that girl frequently messages me, calls me and talks to me online. i dunno if she likes me.

any tips, etc?? pls help.. thx
If she's comfordable talking to you on the phone, or online, I don't see why she wouldn't be comfordable talking to you on a date. Maybe when your talking to her next time and it's a good conversation, just ask towards the end if she would like to go out to lunch with you. It's good to have a plan on what to do before you ask, but you can always discuss plans on the phone, or online.

 
Old 01-17-2004, 09:00 PM   #4
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Re: first date..etc

refer to next reply..

Last edited by taka6^; 01-17-2004 at 09:03 PM.

 
Old 01-17-2004, 09:02 PM   #5
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Re: first date..etc

when to tell her i like her..before/after going out wid her(or first date)

and if i ask her those questions, it feels very strange... she would know i am interested in her...

and somemore she is younger than i am..

 
Old 01-18-2004, 10:37 AM   #6
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Re: first date..etc

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when to tell her i like her..before/after going out wid her(or first date)

and if i ask her those questions, it feels very strange... she would know i am interested in her...

and somemore she is younger than i am..
I wouldn't tell her that before... I think it's best to start a friendship first, that way when you do tell her, and if she turns you down, she knows that she can count on you as a friend, then continue to build off of that friendship. Most of the guys who stay persistent succeed, so don't give up.

 
Old 01-19-2004, 02:04 PM   #7
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Re: first date..etc

firstly, think of her as a "friend" and talk to her that way, maybe casually ask "wanna go get some food?" or coffee or what ever. If you don't want to be too forward about asking her about her bf. Maybe jokingly say " so how's that boyfriend been treating you?' sound corny, but I use that all the time. good luck

 
Old 02-11-2004, 06:31 AM   #8
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Re: first date..etc

she doesnt have an interest in me but in my fren!.. thats y i wanted to find out if she likes me.. and some of u guys said she likes me coz she agreed to go out wid me.. she likes me.. i asked her that and i felt strange.. tis might even break off our friendship.. pls help..

and how to make her like me?

 
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