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Old 01-20-2004, 08:20 PM   #1
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Girl Playing Hard to get. for the ladies

Why do girls play hard to get? what do they do in this 'process' This girl i hung out with two times we had a great time i toolk her to a hockey game it was awesome and hung out at a party afterwards and the night before we watched a movie and fell asleep in eachothers arms, but now she says she will call me and she doesnt, why is this? i call her leave a message and she doesnt call me back, what is going on i feel so alone and empty this sucks. I hope she is playing hard to get and i cant think of anything i did to get her to not like me

-HELP!

 
Old 01-21-2004, 06:52 AM   #2
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Re: Girl Playing Hard to get. for the ladies

It's a weird concept- a whole thought process of "Maybe if I act like I don't like him/her, she/he will like me more." Not just girls do it! Guys are a part of that problem as well... and it's a mystery to me too.

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Old 01-21-2004, 08:35 AM   #3
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Re: Girl Playing Hard to get. for the ladies

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Originally Posted by cursive21
Why do girls play hard to get? what do they do in this 'process' This girl i hung out with two times we had a great time i toolk her to a hockey game it was awesome and hung out at a party afterwards and the night before we watched a movie and fell asleep in eachothers arms, but now she says she will call me and she doesnt, why is this? i call her leave a message and she doesnt call me back, what is going on i feel so alone and empty this sucks. I hope she is playing hard to get and i cant think of anything i did to get her to not like me

-HELP!
Stop right now. Keep these feelings inside. When you are around her, ignore her. Act like you don't care. If she's into you, she'll make the next move. Trust me. If you act desperate, she'll only make it worse. All part of the game.

 
Old 01-21-2004, 09:24 AM   #4
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Re: Girl Playing Hard to get. for the ladies

Both guys and girls play this "hard to get" game. It's all a part of trying not to seem desperate. A way of saying "I don't need you. I'm a difficult catch, and if we end up together, consider yourself the lucky one." It's a way of showing someone how much you're worth. The danger is the opposite sex can be easily discouraged (as you are) and you end up missing out on spending time with this person you really like, just because of games. Who knows, maybe she's playing hard to get or maybe she just didn't have as great a time as you. Maybe you should ask her in person what's up. Ask her if she's playing games or if she's just not interested. That's the best way to figure her out. Playing hard to get doesn't mean blowing off a person, it's just letting them know that you have a life and not everything is about them. So even if she was playing hard to get, she should return you calls. Yeah, go see what's up.

 
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