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Old 02-05-2004, 11:05 PM   #1
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All About Looks

There's probably no real answer to this question, but.. how can you tell if a person is superficial or not? I want to ask out this girl, but she's much better looking than I am, so I fear she might be a little superficial. Before, just asking her out, what kinds of signs can I look out for that might indicate that she is superficial? I've had enough rejections in my day that I have little confidence in my looks. Any opinions would be helpful. Thanks.

 
Old 02-06-2004, 11:46 AM   #2
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Re: All About Looks

I think if you look like a guy, and she looks like a girl, then everything is fine. Just be who you are, and give it a try. Just because someone rejects you, doesn't mean your unattractive. Girls have their own reasons.

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Old 02-06-2004, 12:00 PM   #3
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Re: All About Looks

I dont really think you can tell if a person is superficial or not just by looking at them.Many people look at me and think I am superficial but i am not at all. As for this girl you want to ask out...go for it! Rejection can be hard but youll never know if you never try.

 
Old 02-06-2004, 01:01 PM   #4
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Re: All About Looks

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Originally Posted by Andrew29
There's probably no real answer to this question, but.. how can you tell if a person is superficial or not? I want to ask out this girl, but she's much better looking than I am, so I fear she might be a little superficial. Before, just asking her out, what kinds of signs can I look out for that might indicate that she is superficial? I've had enough rejections in my day that I have little confidence in my looks. Any opinions would be helpful. Thanks.
A girl not liking the way you look is normal. It's not superficial.

 
Old 02-08-2004, 04:49 PM   #5
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Re: All About Looks

Find ways to be interesting. The only way she couldent like you then is if she cared about what her friends thought which is superficial.

 
Old 02-08-2004, 07:27 PM   #6
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Re: All About Looks

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A girl not liking the way you look is normal. It's not superficial.
I think thats the definition of superficial -- judging something/someone based on what is apparent or obvious (on the surface). I didn't say it was abnormal or wrong to be superficial.

 
Old 02-09-2004, 08:03 AM   #7
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Re: All About Looks

If you go by that definition than all human beings are superficial when judging prospective partners. If you don't think she likes the way you look, there is no point in asking her out.

 
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