Re: what's wrong with me
well u say that they either dump you or cheat on you...have u ever asked them wat went wrong or wat happened? if u are still talk to ne of them, maybe they can tell u. Or maybe u have a close girl friend who can help u out? that u trust and can ask for an honest opinion?
well, it seems to me if these girls dump you, they must be losers. you sound like a great guy. mayb u are looking in the wrong places or u keep dating the same 'kind' of girls over and over again. try to talk to girls u usually wouldnt...mayb u'll surprise urself and find sumone u really like!
second of all, make sure that before u make a commitment that the girl is worthy of you. be picky; you deserve sumone awesum, who loves u for u and wont cheat or dump you for stupid reasons.
third, how is ur confidence level? if ur self-estemm is suffering, that could be a reason why girls are turned off. confidence is sexy and if u think u are kewl, than more people will think so too. im not saying be cocky or egotisitical...but if you're a guy who is like im too ugly to get a girl all the time or is always clinging to the girl like "why do u love me, ur so great, ur beter than me" than that can be a turn off also. love urself, and in turn, u will be loved.
which brings me to my final point. I know u said not to say this but YOU WILL FIND SUMONE. i mean its not like uve never had a gf before. U just need to find the right girl. and when u do, be YOURSELF. dotn try to change for them. dont be sumone ur not. no girl likes a poser. and if there are problems, dont be afriad to talk about them. lack of communiation can lead to break ups b/c of misunderstandings. get ur feelings out there and ask the girl wats up too. talkign can strengthen bonds in way u would not belive.
well, i hope this helps!! good luck! make sure u update on how its going