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Old 03-19-2004, 04:51 PM   #1
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Ahhh! Need help!

Well my best friend whos a guy keeps on talkin to me about sick things** be left at that! he already said that he thinks im attractive and kinda hits on me i cant belive him!! hes supposed to be my best friend!! what am i gunna do??!
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Old 03-19-2004, 05:33 PM   #2
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Re: Ahhh! Need help!

Have you told him to stop? If not, tell him, and say that you won't hang out with him anymore, if he doesn't stop. And if he continues to bother you, don't hang out with him.

 
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Old 03-19-2004, 10:30 PM   #3
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Well my best friend whos a guy keeps on talkin to me about sick things** be left at that! he already said that he thinks im attractive and kinda hits on me i cant belive him!! hes supposed to be my best friend!! what am i gunna do??!
Is there a reason that you aren't interested in him beyond friends? Sometimes the best relationships start out as best friends. Afterall when you marry, your partner should be your best friend and confident.

 
Old 03-19-2004, 11:25 PM   #4
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Is there a reason that you aren't interested in him beyond friends? Sometimes the best relationships start out as best friends. Afterall when you marry, your partner should be your best friend and confident.

Do you really want to marry someone who makes lots of sick jokes? Your obviously not impressed by this, if your coming to us for guidance lol. I'd have a talk to him, and if he changes, continue the friendship. If he doesnt, think if he is a good friend or a toxic friend.
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Old 03-20-2004, 06:56 AM   #5
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I used to be the same way in high school...I would say sick things and joke a lot. I usually did it around the girls I like.

He may be trying to get a convesation going but you don't like the way he approaches it. I would try telling him that is not the way for you to be attracted to him. If he cared he would listen and stop. There are other ways to get your attention and he thinks that this is the only way.

You need to tell him so he can change that....

 
Old 03-20-2004, 11:36 AM   #6
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thanx guys! youve helped alot. well i dont like him beyond as a best friend because ide still think of him as a best friend and flirt with other guys i just cant imagine dating my best friend.....wierd
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Old 03-21-2004, 06:21 AM   #7
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Hi, My boyfriend and I were best friends before we started going out. He wanted to go out but I never. I just gave in and told him one date. The date was on Valeintes day 2004. We started goin out as boyfriend/girlfriend Febuary 28, 2004. The last 3 weeks of my life has been the best. So maybe just tell him one date and if after that date u honsently don't like him that way tell him

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Old 03-21-2004, 10:22 AM   #8
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Hi, My boyfriend and I were best friends before we started going out. He wanted to go out but I never. I just gave in and told him one date. The date was on Valeintes day 2004. We started goin out as boyfriend/girlfriend Febuary 28, 2004. The last 3 weeks of my life has been the best. So maybe just tell him one date and if after that date u honsently don't like him that way tell him
Glad to hear things are great

Also, this is a great idea because if she doesn't continue to like the guy beyond that then at least he got his one date.

 
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