Sorry Hun, but I tend to believe what your family and friends feel. By the sounds of things, he's not a very nice guy. Rather abusive if you ask me. He tells you that he flirts, and cahorts with other women, even knowing that it bothers you. That's just not right. If he's your guy, then he should have eyes only for you. By the sounds of things he doesn't.
You deserve so much better. You deserve someone who wants to be with you. Someone who has eyes only for you. Someone that won't flaunt himself around to other women and then taunt you with it.
Get some self esteem and find yourself a guy that deserves you. He sure doesn't.
Tell him to take a hike, and then turn and walk away and never look back.
Originally Posted by peaches87
ok im gonna try make this short..
i love my guy very much. we almost been together 4 a year (may 24) we have gone through hard times an its still very hard cause neither of are parents will let us see each other 4 stupid reasons so we can barley ever see each other lucky if we get to see each other once a week (oh and he lives in a diff town, not that far away) neither of us drives..yet ive just been soo stressed out latley and he is the only person that cheers me up i cant talk to my friends about what is going on because almost all of them hate him 2 for stupid reasons and i dont want to list them....
people tell me not to be with him-cause THEY dont like him
but i dont listen to them cause we love each other. i dont want that ruind he is closer to me then any of my friends. but sometimes im not sure about him because he told me he was gonna go to a friends party get drunk that whole type a thing he wanted me to go but there was no way i could get a ride.. the majority of the people there were girls and he told me that ppl gave him body shots and he gave them body shots....annnnd he let other girls give him lap dances is this just me or is this ****d up what should i do about that? oh and on the weekend he told me that he also "flirts" with other girls but hes like well im not doing anything with them its a big diff. and all this crap i just dont know how to bring this up i want to talk to him about this in person whenever we can see each other but i just dont know what to say? can u guys help me out here i have gotten so stressed about everything and it just keeps getting worse im getting panic/anxiety attacks i have nobody to talk to
im confusing myself from typing all of this so ill just end the thing now...