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Old 04-05-2004, 10:34 AM   #1
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hi, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 9 months now and just recently we went to go watch "Something Gotta Give" with Jask Nicholoson and Kianu Reeves. Halfway during the movie he asked me if i thought Kianu Reeves was hot. SO i told him the truth and told him that i thought he was good-looking. He then started getting mad at me and told me that i have no standards and that i think that every guy out there is hot. He said that this makes him feel ugly. That even though i keep on telling him that i think he's hot, he doesnt believe it because i think every guy out there is hot anyways. he then proceeded to call me easy. i mean.....i just wanna know if youi guys think that he's right or that he was being selfish. form my point of view, he was being selfish becuase he didn't care how i felt. i mean calling me easy and having no standards and telling me that he needed to be with someone that didn't think every guy in movies is hot...which i don't!!!! just because i though kianu reeves was "good looking" in the movie. i was crying and screaming at him because he just would not stop talking and getting mad at me for that. i just wanna hear what you guys think about this.

 
Old 04-05-2004, 11:21 AM   #2
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hi, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 9 months now and just recently we went to go watch "Something Gotta Give" with Jask Nicholoson and Kianu Reeves. Halfway during the movie he asked me if i thought Kianu Reeves was hot. SO i told him the truth and told him that i thought he was good-looking. He then started getting mad at me and told me that i have no standards and that i think that every guy out there is hot. He said that this makes him feel ugly. That even though i keep on telling him that i think he's hot, he doesnt believe it because i think every guy out there is hot anyways. he then proceeded to call me easy. i mean.....i just wanna know if youi guys think that he's right or that he was being selfish. form my point of view, he was being selfish becuase he didn't care how i felt. i mean calling me easy and having no standards and telling me that he needed to be with someone that didn't think every guy in movies is hot...which i don't!!!! just because i though kianu reeves was "good looking" in the movie. i was crying and screaming at him because he just would not stop talking and getting mad at me for that. i just wanna hear what you guys think about this.

He is being selfish... I know people that are the same way and there is nothing that you can do about it. Some people in a relationship feel that they want to be the only ones that you think are "hot".

Overall, this is just a fantasy. In my world I like Britney Spears. I am sure that there is a girl that he goes hot wild over. He is just being selfish and need to lighting up...its not your fault.

 
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Old 04-05-2004, 12:13 PM   #3
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hi, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 9 months now and just recently we went to go watch "Something Gotta Give" with Jask Nicholoson and Kianu Reeves. Halfway during the movie he asked me if i thought Kianu Reeves was hot. SO i told him the truth and told him that i thought he was good-looking. He then started getting mad at me and told me that i have no standards and that i think that every guy out there is hot. He said that this makes him feel ugly. That even though i keep on telling him that i think he's hot, he doesnt believe it because i think every guy out there is hot anyways. he then proceeded to call me easy. i mean.....i just wanna know if youi guys think that he's right or that he was being selfish. form my point of view, he was being selfish becuase he didn't care how i felt. i mean calling me easy and having no standards and telling me that he needed to be with someone that didn't think every guy in movies is hot...which i don't!!!! just because i though kianu reeves was "good looking" in the movie. i was crying and screaming at him because he just would not stop talking and getting mad at me for that. i just wanna hear what you guys think about this.
No intention to be offensive to your boyfriend but he is acting like a jackass, and selfish. He asked you and you told him the truth, end of story.

 
Old 04-05-2004, 12:18 PM   #4
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Ahhhh relationships....The things that make it work. LOVE & TRUST

 
Old 04-14-2004, 09:38 AM   #5
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no offense taken, phew...thanks alot for your advices. I started to think that i was the one at fault here until you guys posted your replie. thanks a lot.

 
Old 04-18-2004, 08:27 AM   #6
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your man is insecure with himself like everybody else. but what's sad is that he has to put those insecurities on you like that.

 
Old 04-19-2004, 07:11 AM   #7
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um, get rid of him now. those are signs of either a control freak or over possesive (sp) person.

 
Old 04-22-2004, 04:11 AM   #8
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He went over the top by calling you "easy". Time to seriously think about where this relationship is heading & whether or not you want to go there.

 
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