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Old 04-14-2004, 11:12 PM   #1
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Sexual issues?

Im turning 16 soon, and I have never had a real gf, its weird. I have done things with girls, but this is only when at chill parties high as hell, other then that I never really approach a girl other then girls that are friends, which I have a lot of. I never seem to have the feeling to need to talk to them or something, only girls that are friends.

Weird?

 
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Old 04-15-2004, 03:36 AM   #2
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Re: Sexual issues?

Nope, society tells us that we "should" have a girlfriend or we should do this or that. I don't think its wierd...its your life and your choice. You decide when the time and the person are right for you, not having a girlfriend isn't a big deal at all.

 
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Old 04-15-2004, 05:27 AM   #3
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Re: Sexual issues?

Hey - I know plenty of guys in my year that have never had a girlfriend. It's not uncommon.

Some guys go out with alot of chicks in high school - most dont. You said you hang around alot of girls, so I dont think you have any social issues. Just wait for the right girl, nothin wrong with that.
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Old 04-15-2004, 08:44 AM   #4
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Re: Sexual issues?

You issue is not wierd.

I had a friend like you that was just friends with alot of people and didn't really care to seek a GF. Many of his friends were girls so he didn't see them in a dating matter.

At parties he may meet a new girl and they would do the same thing but the wierd thing is they would become friends instead of GF/BF after. Today he is 21 and still the same way. He want ts to settle but has a hard time trying to stop meeting new people and becoming friends with them.

 
Old 04-15-2004, 12:50 PM   #5
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Re: Sexual issues?

Do you want to approach girls, but can't, or choose not to?

I never started talking to girls, until just 10th grade, which is almost finished, so I'm about your age. But when I started, just a friendship came out of it. Guess I'm 'too nice of a guy to risk loosing in a relationship' heh, heh... eh... Anyway, your not alone. Just take your time, and don't let anyone tear you down for not having a girlfriend.

 
Old 04-20-2004, 02:48 PM   #6
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Re: Sexual issues?

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Originally Posted by Geek_USA
Im turning 16 soon, and I have never had a real gf, its weird. I have done things with girls, but this is only when at chill parties high as hell, other then that I never really approach a girl other then girls that are friends, which I have a lot of. I never seem to have the feeling to need to talk to them or something, only girls that are friends.

Weird?
Not at all weird. I meet my 1st boyfriend until I was almost 16 and we've been together a year now. He was my first kiss too.

 
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