sorry no one replied ya messasge...i know how it feels haha
putting your head on someones shoulder is not playing/cheating,especially if you done it b4 but might get ya partner jealous, althoug two timing is [playin]. you have options
1)For less risk: debate on which one to break up with.....since one is your best friend then maybe you should break up with him, because, imagine what will happen if y'all break up...therez a fifty fifty percent chance that you wont be friends any more.... so break it to him nicely say "this just isnt the same..you know, you and me, we used to be alot comfortable next to eachother when we weren't dating, i felt so much better with you i mean i could be myself" and stuff like that and if you really are best friends then he'll buy it and he wont get ****** but if he'll throw a fight or one of their "WHAT THA ****** ARE YOU SAYING?" moments then he wasn't a best friend he was just out to get some, or just to date you.
2)if you wanna take a risk
: play them.....two-time, whatever you wanna call it! and eventually you'll see which one is really worth your time....coz i know not alot of guyz are worth mine....just make sure that u dont have one of those dumbass excuses some of us have when we dont watch our mouths haha "my grand mother is sick i gotta take care of her" or "i have to watch my brother" if one of them asks you out on a date on the same day then say you got plans with a friend, or friends, coz if he'll catch you you wont have to make up excuses, you can just say this is "my good friend jay" or whatever.....and then when he asks you (the guy you're with) "oh so im just a good friend?" dont break it to him just tell him you dont want people to know until you know the relation ship is fo real!
lol any wayz if you decide to dump one of them go for your good friend...and if he does get ****** dont cry coz its over smile becoz it happened..if you decide to play them...therre aint no shame or blame in that! have fun![ removed