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Old 05-04-2005, 10:57 AM   #1
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relationship issues what do i do?

Two days ago I broke up with my boyfreind of almost 2 years(just so you knwo hes 22 and im 19) I still love him but we just barely get along anymore he is super insecure and jealous and im not aloud to talk to any guys at all or he gets super ******, and no he is nto abusive in anyway. The problem is since I broek up with him I told him not to contact me because we cannot be freinds o anythign like that, since then he still texts me everyday trying to be normal and he said "tell me what i can do to get you back i cant be without you i wil do anything" &i miss you so much i will love u always i feel like im dying and i wish i was so this was easierive never felt so bad byebye my wee baby" Part of me does want him back because we have broken up n got together so many times over stupid things but its liek a cycle break up get together and we dont get along so much anymore and even worse he got a new job with crappy hours where he has to leave and coem bck from work at 3pm-past midnight, it doesnt allow much tiem to be together considerig he has to get sleep too. I just dont know what to do and he wont stop trying to talk to me I really love him but I dotn think things will change if i take him back.

 
Old 05-04-2005, 04:17 PM   #2
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Re: relationship issues what do i do?

Chances are that if you stay with him you will never be happy, unless you are of a totally submissive personality.

 
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Old 05-05-2005, 01:39 PM   #3
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Re: relationship issues what do i do?

ok my best friends relationship sounds alike like yours... well minus the him working rough hours at work thing. but SHE was the one who was jealous. and they argue alot over stupid stuff. they're actually engaged... the ages are similar too shes 19 hes 24. but they decided together that he wasn't going to talk to girls if she didn't talk to boys. and hes no longer allowed to look at pornos unless its with her. i dunno their relationship is weird to me. but i think if you really love him dont break up every time over stupid stuff ( cuz seriously that is SOOO high school, your adults!). sit down and try and make it work.
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Old 05-05-2005, 03:42 PM   #4
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Re: relationship issues what do i do?

We did both agree we both wouldnt talk to other people or anything like that..Things have taken a turn for the worse nwo I dotn think we will be getting back together he went from OO i love u i need u back to I wish i never met u i hate u ..literally so yup but who knows we work in mysterious ways

 
Old 05-06-2005, 06:08 PM   #5
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Re: relationship issues what do i do?

Why don't you try picking a date to get together and talk- like in a month. Between now and then no talking, texting,letters, nothing. That way it's not like it's forever, there's a definate time you'll talk together.What that'll do is give you both time to seperate yourselves from each other and maybe one or both of you will even be able to move on. Don't tell him that.Tell him it's not about other people but you need him to give you this time to work on things in your own life and figure out what you want to do. After having some real time apart, you might even be able to be friends, but it doesn't sound like getting back together-together is a good idea. Knowing that you're not just not going to see each other EVER might make it a little more bearable for him.

 
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