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Old 06-07-2006, 10:39 PM   #1
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ok...I have a few questions

ok, I have a problem....my GF broke up with me like 4 months ago.....and I really liked her....like ALOT.....ok here is the story....when I first started working at KFC...I was washing dishes and this girl kept coming back where I was washing dishes..and she talked to me ALOT...and she even stayed after her hours to help me wash dishes...then that night I walked to my car and she had left a note in my car door saying that she thought I was cute...and she left her phone number......neways......I called her...and we talked for a little bit....and all that week she called me before she went to work and after she went to work and on her breaks...well...neways I heard from one of her freinds that she liked me....neways to make a long story short she basically asked me out....(I only have saw her 2 times in real life...at work) well..neways I went to school that day...and she wrote me all kinds of notes asking me to hug her and kiss and and stuff...but I didnt do any of that the first week of "SO CALLED" dating her...then the 2nd week came around..and I finally started to hold her hand..well..she basically had to hold mine...then I finally started to hug her...but I didnt kiss her....but she didnt write to me nearly as much and she didnt call at all..and she didnt talk to me as much.....neways to make a long story short she looked like she was loosing interest really quick..and I have only been with her for 2 weeks..well..neways she broke up with me....she used the whole freinds excuse....but then I started to find out things about her...someone told me she was BI...so I started to ask around for info....and then I found out that she tried to go out with one of my freinds sister...so I asked that girl myself if this was true..the girl I heard that my ex tried to get with..and it turns out it was true..she said that my ex asked her out last semester....so I started to watch my ex..(I hung out with my ex alot as a friend)...and I srarted to notice that my ex called this girl ALOT!!!!!!!....like more than she ever called me..and she was always talking about this girl...and my ex even had this girls picture on her cell phone as the backround..and she even had this girl as the backround on her computer to. and I noticed that my ex was always texting this girl ALLLLLLLLL the time.....so one night I was working with my ex and I said..I heard something funny about u...and my ex said "what did you find out" and I looked at her and I said "You know what im talking about" and then my ex admitted that she tried to go out with this one girl last semester..then I said "were U attracted to her" and my ex said yea I was but not no more...and I said what do U mean and she said " it was a one time thing...im straight" ....but I didnt beleive her...neways O started to notice that my ex never ever talked about guys...or checked them out....and she never hung out with guys she always is around girls....neways there is this one girl that my ex sits with in the mourning...and every time my ex gets up..my ex rubs this girls face...and she is always asking this girl to scratch her back..and she is always rubbing this girl and flirting.....neways I can talk alllll night about this...but what do ya think...???...is my ex GF a lesbain?
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and here is the 2nd question... do girls ever look at a guys body???...like are girls at all attracted to a nice muscular body???...or does it not matter at all?
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and the 3rd question is.....have any of u girls had a guy friend that ya thought was hot...but U only saw him as a friend?

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Old 06-08-2006, 07:41 AM   #2
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Re: ok...I have a few questions

I don't think your ex is a lesbian. After all, she did like you. And she said she was straight. Why would she lie? As far as her affections with girls, it could be that she just needs the attention. Or she could be bi. But, it is so trendy these days for girls to act bi. Lots of girls just act like it for the attention. So you just never know... To me, it sounds like your ex just really needs and craves and wants attention.

And yes, girls do look at a guy's body. Most women prefer some muscles, but every girl is different. Some girls prefer a guy to have a slimmer body, while I personally prefer some meat on the bones -- like, even if he has a some chub. I personally like to feel small against a bigger guy. Some girls focus more of their attention on a guy's personality and attitude more than their appearance. It is different for every one. And, it changes as you get older.

Yes, I've had guy friends who I thought were hot and I only saw them as a friend. It could be that he just wasn't my type, his personality didn't click with mine, or maybe I was already in a relationship, or maybe he wasn't interested in me. Or maybe I liked the friendship more than I would like a physical relationship. There are lots of reasons...

 
Old 06-08-2006, 11:22 AM   #3
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Re: ok...I have a few questions

Then Y Did She Break Up With Me!!!!! She Sends Me All Kinds Of Mixed Signals!!!! She Acts Like She Likes Me 1 Week Then The Next She Ignores Me!!!!!!!........and What Really Gets Me Is Eveyone Says She Is Ugly...and Eveyone Says That I Can Get Way Better Looking Girls Than Her!!!!! Girls And Guys Say That!!!! And I Am Her 2nd Bf Period...her Last Bf The One Before Me She Dated Him For 4 Months And She Didnt Even Date Me For A Month...and He Is A All Out *******........and I Dont Wana Sound Mean..but He Is Ugly..and Eveyone Says I Look Way Better Than Him...and Its Driving Me Nuts That She Went Out With Him For So Long....and Didnt Even Date Me For A Month...im Getting Drove Nuts Cause I Like This Girl Sooooo Much And I Dont Know Y...personally I Think Shje Is Really Pretty...i Dont Care What Eveyone Else Thinks....and Her Breaking Up With Me Made Me Feel Ugly...and Her Dating That One Guy For So Long Made Me Feel Even Uglier...cause He Is Mean And He Is Ugly...and I Am Really Nice To People.....i Dunno What To Do....i Think She Might Think That I Dont Like Her Cause I Have Ignored Her Alot Lately..so What Do I Do????....

 
Old 06-08-2006, 11:49 AM   #4
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Re: ok...I have a few questions

There are a number of reasons why she could have broke up with you. The only person who can answer that is her. But to me, it sounds like you really like this girl - despite what others say - so why not just remain friends with her.

As far as the other guy she dated for 4 months, don't worry about that. There are a number of reasons why that happened and it is really none of your business to know. All throughout your life you are going to meet people and they will have past relationships. You'll have them too. You just have to focus on what is current.

Don't beat yourself up over this. Don't call yourself ugly. Confidence is attractive to women, so think positive! Instead of focusing so much on girls and this particular girl, you'll be better off focusing on school and your hobbies. Life begins after high school.

I think you should just try to maintain a friendship with this girl, and start to broaden your view and look at other girls to date.

What would she think if you started to date someone else?

Why not find someone who treats you good and likes you every week, instead of just once in awhile?

I know you like this girl, but there are other fish in the sea. I think she might be playing games with you to get attention.

 
Old 06-09-2006, 01:09 AM   #5
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Re: ok...I have a few questions

ok now i asked my last bf out but we broke up 4 weeks ago because i found out i liked my bff more then him he also noticed whale we were together that i never really checked out guys j but mainly just girls well it turns out that im bi and that that bff isent just my bff enymore she likes me to i think mabey u should talk with her about it .

 
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