It appears you have not yet Signed Up with our community. To Sign Up for free, please click here....



Teen Health Message Board
Post New Thread   Closed Thread
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 06-08-2006, 07:07 PM   #1
Junior Member
(male)
 
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: In the cold November Rain
Posts: 30
gibsonsg1991 HB User
How do I get courage?

Okay, a few weeks ago, day before Memorial Day, I met a girls at a barbecue. We have a mutual friend. So, we kind of hit it off, and then all week, I couldn't stop thinking of her. So, I asked my friend for her phone number, and I have been wanting to call her, but I can't get the courage. I tried once, and her dad answered, and I got so nervous I hung up. How do I get the courage to actually call her and ask her?

 
Old 06-09-2006, 08:41 AM   #2
Inactive
(female)
 
Join Date: May 2006
Location: St. Paul, Minnesota
Posts: 745
minnesotagirl HB User
Re: How do I get courage?

Everyone has this problem. When I was younger, I'd often have my friend call the person and get them on the phone to see if they wanted to talk to me. But that is immature. It is better to do it yourself. Just call her to talk. You might want to think of a question or a reason for calling in advance. But, its important to be yourself. How about setting up an activity with this girl and your mutual friend? Maybe the mutual friend would take charge of this? Or, you could do it yourself. What resources do you have?

Hmmm... another thought... Does this girl and do you have any type of instant messager or email or an online friend's list or anything like that? Its really easy to strike up a conversation online and then turn it into a phone conversation...

Otherwise, you really just have to find the courage inside yourself. Have your friends motivate you. Remember that everyone struggles with this. Visualize positive outcomes -- like how great it will be after you call her and you have a really good conversation ... doesn't that sound awesome? Make it happen.

Last edited by minnesotagirl; 06-09-2006 at 08:46 AM.

 
Sponsors Lightbulb
   
Old 06-09-2006, 05:21 PM   #3
Junior Member
(male)
 
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: In the cold November Rain
Posts: 30
gibsonsg1991 HB User
Re: How do I get courage?

Okay, my idea is, I want to call her, explain to her who I am and say "I was wondering if you wanted to come with me to see the new Adam Sandler movie (Click) when it comes out in a couple of weeks." Would that be okay?

 
Closed Thread

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Board Replies Last Post
courage to ask for test moommin Thyroid Disorders 8 12-14-2006 06:53 AM
Don't have the courage to leave. RubyRedHead Relationship Health 6 04-11-2006 07:56 AM
Im building up courage!!!! couger2347 Smoking Cessation 2 11-08-2005 11:09 AM
The joys of NOT living with an addict - a message of courage thghtsreal Addiction & Recovery 52 09-16-2005 02:09 AM
the courage always does come... cryingskies Eating Disorder Recovery 7 07-22-2005 12:23 PM




Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off




Sign Up Today!

Ask our community of thousands of members your health questions, and learn from others experiences. Join the conversation!

I want my free account

All times are GMT -7. The time now is 12:22 AM.



Site owned and operated by HealthBoards.comô
Terms of Use © 1998-2014 HealthBoards.comô All rights reserved.
Do not copy or redistribute in any form!