i made a massive mistake when i got drunk once. need help
so one night me and 3 friends went round to a mates house. later on at night when his parents went to sleep 3 of us drank way too much and i have been told that me and my friend went to 2nd base. recently people have started to find out about what happens, and im so confused i dont know what to do. vaguely remember the night but i claim to anyone who asks me about it that i was completely wasted and know nothing about it. should i just claim i know nothing about it and try and forget the night? or do i tell my friends what happened and get over it.
Re: i made a massive mistake when i got drunk once. need help
tell them that whatever happened is none of their business and if and when you do remember all the details you will take out a part in the classfied sections and provide all the details.
Seriously though, it really is none of their buisiness, people get drunk they do stupid things, your buddies were also drunk and are probably as unsure about what went on as you are.
Re: i made a massive mistake when i got drunk once. need help
I totally agree. There were a few things that happened when I was a teenager that I felt like I did because I was experimenting and trying to find out who I was. My parents were always protective and I thought they would surely overreact if they found out. Some of the things they did find out about eventually, and I was very surprised when my Dad said, "None of us are perfect." There will be many things that happen in your life, some you will not be proud of. Try to make the best decisions you can and keep looking forward to the future.
People love to gossip and will always try to find out the dirt on everyone else because it makes them feel better, I suppose. It really is none of their business and so it happened, move on and don't dwell on it too much.
Re: i made a massive mistake when i got drunk once. need help
if you are so concerned about getting to 2nd base, and people knowing about it, what are you doing drinking in the first place?
aside from that, was your friend a male? if he was, its fine. i have been to many parties where adult men do stupid things when they are drunk and are embarrassed the next morning. i have a 36 year old friend that made out with another man when he was drunk.
also... you don't have to say anything about what happened that night. you owe nothing to anyone except yourself.
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i made a massive mistake when i got drunk once. need help 
