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Old 12-05-2010, 02:30 PM   #1
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Gay?

Ok well i'm not sure if this is the right thread...

But I am a girl, teen. I feel sexually and emotionally attracted to men, but not as much as other girls do. I could be with a guy and be completely happy, but I also see them as good friends quite often.
On the other hand, I find girls really attractive as well. I could get emotionally attracted to a girl, but I am not completely sexually attracted to them. I always want to kiss them, but nothing further.

I know it is natural to feel this way, but what does it mean if i think i could be with either a boy or girl, but im scared to be with a girl because im not completely sexually attracted to her?

Also: I seem to think two guys together are hot but two girls kissing because they are in love is amazing too.

Thanks!

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Old 12-20-2010, 11:35 PM   #2
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Re: Gay?

well, i am in a similar situation. my very first relationship was with a girl. it is ending/ended very badly with emotional and verbal abuse. i found out she was cheating. neither one of identified as gay, she has been hooking up with guys since she was 12. i am now at the point where i am questioning my sexuality. i have had sex with a guy, i did not enjoy it but also did it after my break up and stopped immediately when all i could think of was my ex girlfriend. i am extremely attracted to her (unfortunately) but also think guys are attractive - they just intimidate me sexually. the only guys i have been with have ended up hurting me or using me in some way. i was sexually assaulted at a concert, the guy i had sex with never talked to me again - so i am fairly convinced that i would be more comfortable with a girl. i crave the compassion and sensitivity of a girl and i find girls good looking, but the thought of being with another girl other than my ex completely weirds me out and i am unsure if i would be able to do that.

with that said, there is nothing wrong with experimenting. being with a girl you're in love with is extremely hot and passionate. that is one of the main reasons why i can't get myself out of this abusive relationship. but i imagine sex with a guy you truly love is the same. test the waters, don't be ashamed. i suggest you try serious relationships with both, to just hook up and not have feelings for either person of either sex is useless. it's scary to be confused but i know that it all comes together one day.

 
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